Advice
How do you discover your life purpose? Some crucial points to find the answer to the puzzle of life.
How do you discover your life purpose? Some crucial points to find the answer to the puzzle.
Life is meaningful only when you have a purpose.
Let me ask you,do you know the life purpose?
If not then follow me through.
I would like to help you find out the purpose of your life.
Consider these important questions. Don’t just read but take a note book and write the answers sincerely.
By doing so you will find you are desperately looking for.
1. What are your passions?
2. What are your values?
3. What are your strengths?
4. What are your weaknesses?
5. What have been your most significant life experiences?
6. What would you do if you had unlimited resources?
7. What would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail?
8. What would make you feel like you’re not wasting your time?
9. What makes you feel most alive?
10. What would you do if you only had a year left to live?
Now What?!
Go through your answers and find what’s common in your answers.
Contemplating the following questions can give you some insights on your life purpose.
If you’d like to explore these questions further and gain personalized guidance on your journey of self-discovery, book a call with me today.
Let’s work together to unlock your true potential and create a life that aligns with your authentic purpose.
One of the keys to uncovering your life purpose is to identify what you’re passionate about.
What activities do you enjoy doing?
What gets you excited and energized?
Which are the topics that you enjoy learning about?
When do you feel like you are in your zone, your flow, what are you doing?
Your values are the principles and beliefs that guide your life. They’re the things that you hold most dear and that you’re willing to fight for.
Your values are extremely important if you want to live a joyful life aligned with who you really are.
The problem is that most often we take them for granted and we don’t even think about our values when making life choices.
Take some time to reflect on what’s most important to you.
What do you believe in?
What causes or issues matter to you?
Which are the most important values that you hold dear?
Here’s a list values to help you get started:
Truth
Freedom
Integrity
Respect
Connection
Compassion
Kindness
Family
Relationships
Loyalty
Your life purpose is likely to align with your values.
Our life choices need to be in line with our values. Otherwise, we would be making it impossible for ourselves to live a joyful life with a sense of inner peace and fulfillment.
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An open letter to the United Nations and an appeal on behalf of Ukraine.
To,
The United Nations and all countries,
With due respect I want to share some- thing very urgent. As you might know what’s happening in Ukraine.
So you say you are awesome and a peacemaker.
But what you have done speaks louder than your claims.
Look,Ukraine is destroyed and it will soon happen to exist no more.
Look,how you kept on looking at the war and amused yourself.
You thought that it’s not a big deal. You are useless,to speak frankly.
Hey,you could have saved thousands of precious cities and people including children.
Of course you are safe.
You are invincible as you often say.
But I think that’s much exaggeration!!
Hey, you are a coward hiding behind your peace talks and all gimmicks.
When will you awake?
How can we as a hu- man being ignore the war and its impact?
Ukraine is facing the giant and it’s too long
Ukraine is facing the giant and it’s too long now.
Mankind is under attack.
What could the United States and other nations do to stop this war?
At Least for the sake of those pre- cious children and future generations something must be done.
Hey,think like a good human being.
Think not how you can be safe.
Let the peace prevail.
Let the peace prevail. Russia is wicked and it is getting dirtier as time goes by.
Let’s hope for the best,
A citizen of the free
My experiments with depression and my conclusions: People have stupid reaction towards depression.
What’s more disturb- ing than depression is people’s attitude towards it.
Over the years I had been through many ups and downs.
One of the most horrific experience was my struggle with depression.
The thing that hurt me most was people’s utter stupid attitude towards me.
It was as if my life was in jeopardy.
My story has a strong message for those in our society.
Unless we treat this stupid- ity patients with mental illness and issues will not recover fast.
My own first hand experience has taught me what books could never teach me about depression.
Let me briefly share few of the utter stupid attitude of people towards me while I was in depression,
1. That I am abnormal.
2. That I am faking it.
3. I am Lazy.
4. That I am stupid.
5. That I am beyond hope.
6. That I am not worthy of respect.
7. That I am the only per- son on earth to behave like this.
8. That by willpower & efforts I can overcome it.
9. That this is not a big deal. I am the cause of this.
10. That this is not a sickness that needs treatment but a state of mind.
A letter to the broken soul.
Why are you cast down?
Hey,
How are you?
This is just a quick reminder. Life is beautiful my dear Soul.
You are an overcomer!!
I know you will overcome this problem too.
Never doubt yourself. You have done it in the past several times.
Do you know, you are my role model? Yes.
It’s true you get discouraged sometimes,tell me who does not?
We are winners.
Tell me more about your victories,I know you have many of them.
Beneath the surface,you are a superhero.
Trust me,I love you.
You are extraordinary. You are awesome.
This too shall pass.
Hey,rise up. You have a long way to go. I am looking forward to hear from you.
Stay strong.
Yours always,
A fellow traveler.
Stop blaming everything in 2023 but make a brutal resolution about your life but how?
Life is an adventure but I don’t know how can I save my life?
Relevant information about getting the dream life you wish for:
1. Luck is non existent
2. Belief is the most crucial currency of a blessed life.
3. There are different perspectives about everything in life. Choose the best one.
4. Think about your biases. On which bias are you looking on?
5. We get angry when we are not at peace with our Past.
6. Asking forgiveness makes you divine.
7. It takes fear and love both to get moving in any relationship. Fear has it’s purpose.
8. No one can make you angry without your consent.
9. No one can make you happy without your permission.
©Titus Vargis,
https://loveandmarriagecoach.com
How breakthrough comes in a life of mess? How I almost got killed but survived?
Life is not mathematics. That means it’s not five plus five equal to ten here.
We can’t lay down our plans but it’s life that overrules here on this planet.
We can either fear or face it. There are no other way around.
As human beings,we are not superhuman. We are not Hollywood superstars either.
Life is difficult and more than difficult for the vast majority of us. What can we do about it?
How did the breakthrough happen? My own life is a great example.
I lost my dad at a very young age. I almost had nothing to hold on to. It was almost impossible to carry on.
I decided to give up. I attempted suicide several times. But I couldn’t succeed. God perhaps had other plans.
No human being could stop my depression. My life was a mess. I had no money. My mother had no job. Moreover my younger brother was in school.
Someone introduced a higher way. I was not ready to accept anything. As I had become hopeless I didn’t even want to try anything.
But after much consideration,I thought why not should I take this chance.
My life changed bit by bit. It was as if I was gaining a new perspective of life. I was vulnerable. I had no hope but now I was hopeful.
Misery became a miracle. I started praying. I started my relationship with Jesus. I had no purpose in life.
My suicidal thoughts began to disappear. I found relief. A big relief.My family began to change.My condition improved.
I don’t want to say that you need to try this too but I would say it gets really better when we try. No one can help a hopeless person. No amount of money can remove bad luck.
One needs a divine hand. It’s in fact the only way. I think had I not tried this path I would have definitely ended my life somehow.
Life gives you no relief. Friends can help to some point. No one walks with you forever.
My life got transformed. It was a miracle indeed.
Let’s face it: you can’t carry pain and despair forever. You can’t live in such desperation. You will not survive.
Now I am glad that I took this path. My life still has a lot of weaknesses but I am courageous now. I am glad that I found the answer.
Best wishes.
Dear traveler on the journey called life, let me share something.
You are not your thoughts tell you.
Dear traveler,
I am glad to meet you and say something to you.
I believe we all have different names to comment on our struggles on this journey. But I think that we all have the same struggles.
We might be poor or rich. We might be less confident or more.
We might be from countries that are called developed or not so.
We might be thinking we are alone. We think we are here but no one knows us.
Yet,we can’t blame anyone. We are still warriors. We need someone like a mirror that says so. This is the thing we lack. We have many doomsayers. We have many who discourage us.
Yet we are conquerors. We are not aware. The main secret is this: we must not quit.
Sooner or later,we win. We get to the destination. We are really not alone. It’s our mind that tells us that we are alone. Like our mind being programmed .
Share with someone what you go through. Find someone. No one is perfect. We are still traveling.
It’s our ego that stops us from association. It’s our prejudices. It’s our culture. You know what? If we overcome these,we will win together.
Why not? Ask yourself. Ask the universe. Ask the roads. Here,we are not losers.
Stand up. Walk again. Move a bit if you can’t run.
Don’t stop. Let’s start again. Together. Give me your hand. Hold me and let’s run.
I believe in you. Our destiny calls us. Thank you.
Yours brother,
A traveler.
Ask me more ( the secret question we ask from others but never say)
https://open.substack.com/pub/titusvargis/p/can-you-please-tell-me-morethe-secret?r=7io0r&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web
What God really really wants?
The monumental question mankind has been struggling with.
The most crucial question in the World is this: what God wants?
The strength of the question is not in the ‘what’ but in GOD.
Humankind has been asking this question from ages.
The man in his search for meaning and significance realised that no one can give him meaning and significance on this planet but GOD.
The question implies that there is a GOD. Our existence demands our significance.
We as a human being are looking for the reasons behind our existence.
The GOD factor helps us to face the uncertainties of this planet.
Gods and the question by Titus Vargis.
We don’t find our meaning and significance in our money or people. People are not the ones we are looking for our monumental question.
We look to GOD for our monumental question. We know that the one who brought us into this planet is GOD himself.
For centuries mankind has founded religions and practices that try to give his soul the answers.
What God wants? How can we answer this question?
We must go through the oceans of the Holy Books and the story tellers.
We have found that God wants our heart,body,money,soul and so on.
But does this confirm our answers?
Are we sure about this?
If God wants bla bla bla bla bla….then why God is still God sitting somewhere and doing nothing…?
The truth that we search for is this,
GOD HAS EVERYTHING. GOD IS LARGER THAN EVERYTHING.
GOD IS SO FULL OF EVERYTHING THAT YOU NEED NOT GIVE HIM ANYTHING.
MOREOVER THE MOST MONUMENTAL TRUTH IS THIS: GOD DID NOT ASK THIS QUESTION.
IT WAS NOT THE QUESTION THAT GOD ASKED. GOD WANTS NOTHING. GOD OWNS THE MILKYWAY AND THE STARS. THE UNIVERSE BELONGS TO HIM.
once you look onto this truth, you are changed forever. God is not looking for something. God cares nothing about what you give to Him.
It’s the so called religion and priests that demand everything in the name of God. So that they get everything in the name of God.
The Power behind the religion is putting up lots of requirements to the people. Unless you put impossible requirements people won’t come to you for help.
The monumental answer by Titus Vargis.Photo by Adnan Khan on Unsplash
This creates a cycle of exploitation. This way people can be effectively exploited. We see for centuries mankind has been duped.
Even the so called good religions are exploiting in the name of their gods.
Let’s examine these answers. Let’s find the exploitation and demand answers from the so called keepers of gods.
© Titus Vargis
https://loveandmarriagecoach.com
7 things I hate in my relationship and they frustrate me : what women should not do in a relationship?
Life gets more better as one puts more love.
There are many reasons for my frustrations in life.
They really are numerous but some of them are more recurring.
Let me share a few of them.
I believe these things will help women to realize what frustrates a man in a relationship.
1. Feelings overtaking the sensibility.
2. Inability to understand what makes me angry.
3. Always expecting me to understand her but not taking efforts to understand me.
4. Lack of gratitude
5. Complaining always.
6. Criticizing my character when it should have been my wrong behavior.
7.Childish behavior.
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