Everything has meaning and everyone is connected,no matter what

The underlying causes of our disruptions which we often overlook

The Matrix by Titus Vargis.

everything has

meaning. and a purpose

we all are awesome!!

connected and made to

live connected.

No matter what.

a spouse,a child,

father or mother

even little ones.

we were

hardwired to live

interconnected.

what happens to one

spreads to another.

might be pain or

loneliness,

or disappointments

ecstasy, enlightenment

we are spreading

everything

that comes to us

in the form of waves,

you like it or not.

we are not perfect

but we are spreading

everything that comes

to us wether love,hatred, jealousy,guilt,

cruelty,shame,joy

and happiness.

we do it always.

As part of an ocean,

each waves spreads

to everyone we live with.

The pain we feel

is felt by everyone around,

all other vice or virtue.

we hurt and get hurt.

we smile we are

smiled upon.

why don’t we realise sooner?

loving my neighbour

is loving myself.

loving my partner

is loving myself.

loving my child

is loving myself…..

© Titus vargis.

5 things I hate in my partner and everyone should avoid these in a Relationship.

There can be no sorry for some issues in any relationship.

There is no excuse my dear by Titus Vargis

5 things I hate in my marriage, and these can happen in any relationship.

Well,they must be avoided at any cost to save your relationship.


01. When I don’t receive back what I give. I always try my best to give love,care, and forgiveness to my partner. Even respect when I feel I have been mistreated.


02. When I don’t feel that my partner keeps the secrets about me. This frustrates me.


03. When I find that in matters of money I cannot ask my partner about my needs.when I get answers like it’s my money,why didn’t you keep your money? This turns me off. I strongly believe that as a partner one should help each other in all ways possible.


04. When I am not consulted regarding some major issues. It can be buying any stuffs or taking a big decision. As a partner one should always first ask one’s partner about their suggestions.


05. When I am ridiculed in front of others and my partner too joins them. This hurts me the most.

©Titus Vargis,PhD

7 relationship secrets that one must know to have a lasting Relationship.

Well,most of the Relationship coach wont tell you this.

The love that stands on the Rock by Titus Vargis.

How can a Relationship coach help when one is in crisis and the partner is indifferent? 

Relationships are not easy as it appears. It’s not like 2 plus 2 equals 4.

It’s really complicated. Sometimes one partner is serious and the other one is just passing time.

What can we do in such a situation? 

There are very good people around who can help you. 

But in order to get lasting solutions one must not forget these relationship principles,

  1. Relationship is a marathon. Its not a short race.One must understand this.
  2. Both the partners must be mature enough to make changes in themselves. No one is perfect here. 
  3. If one partner thinks that he or she is perfect then that relationship won’t last long. It’s so simple. 
  4. Relationships are not one night stands. It’s neither romance nor a joy ride. It’s much larger than that.
  5. We begin with love but we go forward with commitment and lots of sacrifice.
  6. Relationships are not for kids or immature people. It’s not for sex or time pass. 
  7. Relationships are not measured by looks or money but by transparency and sincerity. Looks can backfire.
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