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Hello, my dear friend.
Are you feeling broken? I would like to talk with you.
This is a safe space where you’re seen and heard, a corner where we can share heart-to-heart.
Life can be grueling, and people can be harsh, but remember, you’re not alone in your struggles. Let’s journey through understanding, resilience, and joy together.
You Are Not Your Behavior
Let’s get one thing straight: your worth isn’t defined by your behaviors, mistakes, or the judgments from those around you. Often, people who keep score of your flaws are wrestling with their own imperfections. So, what should you do?
* Ignore those scorekeepers; they’re no better themselves.
* Recognize your strengths and embrace your weaknesses—they make you uniquely you.
In this noisy world, everyone has an opinion about how you should exist. It’s vital to remind yourself: You are not defined by an isolated moment of your life.
Find Your Tribe
The people who try to belittle you are often battling feelings of inferiority. They may not even realize how their insecurities are affecting you.
* Surround yourself with individuals who uplift you.
* Reevaluate relationships that drain your spirit.
Nothing hurts more than being put down by someone you admire. I’ve felt this pain firsthand, and it’s tough but remember, happiness is your inherent right, not a privilege.
Claiming Your Happiness
Happiness isn’t a luxury item—it’s your right. Take it, own it, live it.
* You don’t need permission to seek joy.
* Break free from those who shatter your peace.
Personal story time—there were moments when I thought my happiness was dependent on approval from others. It took many tears and tough days to realize that the only approval I need is my own.
Walking Away Isn’t Weakness
Sometimes, the healthiest thing you can do is to distance yourself from toxic people.
* Limit interactions that harm more than they heal.
* Loving yourself might mean leaving certain people behind.
If someone shows you that they don’t value your peace or presence, believe them the first time. It’s not about them; it’s about respecting yourself enough to walk away.
Talk It Out
Feeling overwhelmed? Talk to someone who genuinely cares.
* Find a compassionate ear among friends or family.
* Consider professional help—there are many wonderful counselors ready to support you.
And if you’re up for it, why not treat yourself? Grab that ice cream you love, dive into your favorite movie—it’s small acts like these that nestle joy back into your life.
Embrace Self-Care
Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.
* Make time for hobbies and passions outside your daily routines.
* Invest in activities that bring you happiness, be it sports, cooking, or movies.
Remember, laughing and enjoying life aren’t signs of not taking life seriously—they’re signs of embracing the array of human emotions.
You Are Special
I want to leave you with this thought: You are special, loved, and worthy of love.
* Never let anyone’s negativity dictate how you see yourself.
* Protect your peace and prioritize your happiness.
Remember, the greatest duty in life is to love yourself first. When you do, loving others and accepting love becomes a beautiful, natural extension.
Stay blessed, dear friend. Always choose love, choose joy, and most importantly, choose yourself.
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I hope this post resonates with you and instills a bit of strength and hope. If you know someone who might benefit from these words, please feel free to share. Let’s spread kindness and understanding together.
Yours friend
©Titus vargis.
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