How breakthrough comes in a life of mess? How I almost got killed but survived?

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My story by Titus Vargis
Life as we face it by Titus vargis



Life is not mathematics. That means it’s not five plus five equal to ten here.

We can’t lay down our plans but it’s life that overrules here on this planet.

We can either fear or face it. There are no other way around.

As human beings,we are not superhuman. We are not Hollywood superstars either.

Life is difficult and more than difficult for the vast majority of us. What can we do about it?

How did the breakthrough happen? My own life is a great example.



I lost my dad at a very young age. I almost had nothing to hold on to. It was almost impossible to carry on.

I decided to give up. I attempted suicide several times. But I couldn’t succeed. God perhaps had other plans.

No human being could stop my depression. My life was a mess. I had no money. My mother had no job. Moreover my younger brother was in school.

Someone introduced a higher way. I was not ready to accept anything. As I had become hopeless I didn’t even want to try anything.

But after much consideration,I thought why not should I take this chance.

My life changed bit by bit. It was as if I was gaining a new perspective of life. I was vulnerable. I had no hope but now I was hopeful.

Misery became a miracle. I started praying. I started my relationship with Jesus. I had no purpose in life.

My suicidal thoughts began to disappear. I found relief. A big relief.My family began to change.My condition improved.

I don’t want to say that you need to try this too but I would say it gets really better when we try. No one can help a hopeless person. No amount of money can remove bad luck.

One needs a divine hand. It’s in fact the only way. I think had I not tried this path I would have definitely ended my life somehow.

Life gives you no relief. Friends can help to some point. No one walks with you forever.

My life got transformed. It was a miracle indeed.

Let’s face it: you can’t carry pain and despair forever. You can’t live in such desperation. You will not survive.

Now I am glad that I took this path. My life still has a lot of weaknesses but I am courageous now. I am glad that I found the answer.

Best wishes.

My own experience by Titus Vargis
My story by Titus Vargis.

Dear traveler on the journey called life, let me share something.

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You are not your thoughts tell you.

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Hey warrior by Titus Vargis.

Dear traveler,

I am glad to meet you and say something to you.

I believe we all have different names to comment on our struggles on this journey. But I think that we all have the same struggles.

We might be poor or rich. We might be less confident or more.

We might be from countries that are called developed or not so.

We might be thinking we are alone. We think we are here but no one knows us.

Yet,we can’t blame anyone. We are still warriors. We need someone like a mirror that says so. This is the thing we lack. We have many doomsayers. We have many who discourage us.

Yet we are conquerors. We are not aware. The main secret is this: we must not quit.

Sooner or later,we win. We get to the destination. We are really not alone. It’s our mind that tells us that we are alone. Like our mind being programmed .

Share with someone what you go through. Find someone. No one is perfect. We are still traveling.

It’s our ego that stops us from association. It’s our prejudices. It’s our culture. You know what? If we overcome these,we will win together.

Why not? Ask yourself. Ask the universe. Ask the roads. Here,we are not losers.

Stand up. Walk again. Move a bit if you can’t run.

Don’t stop. Let’s start again. Together. Give me your hand. Hold me and let’s run.

I believe in you. Our destiny calls us. Thank you.

Yours brother,
A traveler.

Giving up is Okay and 10 other uncommon perspectives on living your life.

Life is an adventure.

Life is an adventure by Titus Vargis

1. People are everywhere.You need to learn to interact with them.


2. Problems are part of association. As long as we are here on this planet,we will get hurt some way or the other. Accept this.


3. Learn to deal with the weirdness of the masses.


4. Family is the only shelter available here on this Earth. Treat them with utmost importance.


5. No matter what, learn to ask forgiveness from your family. Accept that you made the mistake if you have made it.


6. Loneliness is the most cruel reality of our life on the planet. Learn to embrace it.


7. Develop some habits. It can be anything that you find joy. Immerse yourself into it. It heals your body and soul.


8. You are a soul with a body. Looking after your soul is more important than your body. Learn to feed your soul.


9. Associate with some humans. Find someone who can accompany you. Find your partner.


10.Giving up is okay. Find something new. Keep seeking. No one can tell you what you must do.


11. Life is an adventure. Learn more and more. Unlearn something that you have learnt in the past which serves nothing.

©Titus Vargis
https://loveandmarriagecoach.com

My confessions: I care about others but I am weak. The paradox of weakness.

Why I am strong even in my weaknesses
I am weak but strong

I get hurt easily. Don’t know why. I am caring for others.

Yet I wonder about how easily I get hurt. Especially from my close ones.

I am not selfish. I care about my relationship.

I put my whole being into my children. I put my love.

I never listen to even myself when I get a chance to help my relationship.

Still I get touchy very often.
I am not that vocal about my pain.
I am not easily expressive.

I am keeping my feelings to myself.
I am like that.

But I wonder why I am not that strong.
I am weak frankly. And that’s the reason I care.

That’s why I love my relationship even to the point of being exhausted.

I am weak, that’s why I know what it is to get hurt,what it’s to be unloving.

I have seen enough wrecked people. I have seen people so wicked who don’t care about you.

I have seen getting abused. I have heard painful and hurting abusive language spoken against me.

I have seen my father passed even in my younger days.
I have seen poverty. I have seen people hurting you purposely.

I have seen people who left me when I was vulnerable.
Still I did not stop caring. Especially my relationship.

Frankly speaking,I have not received what I give to others. Others don’t always reciprocate.
This hurts me.

I expect others to see my hurt. I expect them not to say that it breaks my heart.
It seems that they don’t care that much.

Hey,still I have not acted like them. This is not a weakness. This is not stupidity. This is divine.

This is the reason as a human being we are not wiped out of this planet. Such people exist.

This makes the difference.

Thank you for taking time. God bless.

Let me know what are your thoughts.
Do share even if it’s little.
©Titus Vargis
https://loveandmarriagecoach.com