what does it take to intervene?

Does one need gold treasure to help

What does
it take to
lend
a helping hand?


What does
it take
to ask
a lonely
What has happened?


take up cross
for a while
while someone is
bleeding
bearing it!?

Does it take
education?
a big heart
gold treasure?
large assets?

Or someone
with
a human
heart,
someone
from the
species
who call
themselves
so called
homo sapiens?

Finally! An Open Letter That Offers a Real Solution to Loneliness!

No one to lean on by Titus vargis



Dear Reader,

I have something important to share with you – a personal struggle that many may relate to. This isn’t your average social media post; it’s raw and emotional. I want you to understand that despite appearances, my life isn’t perfect. I may write inspirational posts and showcase a seemingly ideal existence, but behind the scenes, I battle with my own demons. Loneliness is my constant companion, despite having a loving family and engaging in community service. The lack of empathy from those closest to me leaves me feeling isolated. I do my best to help others, but often feel used and discarded in return. This constant cycle of selfishness is disheartening.

## The Unseen Battle

My open life by Titus vargis



I am not the life of the party; I prefer solitude. My quiet demeanor shouldn’t be mistaken for misanthropy – I simply find solace in my own company. It’s disconcerting that society often favors extroverts over introverts like myself. I gravitate towards individuals who exhibit empathy and open-mindedness, as self-absorption is a trait that I struggle to tolerate. Finding balance in a world that values social prowess can be challenging, causing me to question my self-worth. My perfectionist tendencies only exacerbate my internal conflicts.

In my darker moments, when the world feels overwhelming, I retreat into my fortress of solitude. It’s there, in the silence, that I confront the heart of my loneliness. It’s not the absence of people that haunts me but the absence of meaningful connections. Despite being surrounded by a crowd, the void within grows, feeding on fleeting interactions and superficial exchanges.

My chaos by Titus vargis.



## Finding Respite

To combat my feelings of isolation, I engage in various therapeutic activities. Music has a profound effect on my well-being, providing a sense of solace when words fail me. Journaling serves as an outlet for my unfiltered thoughts, allowing me to untangle the complexities of my emotions. Immersing myself in nature, reading books, and practicing mindfulness techniques like meditation also offer respite from the chaos of everyday life.

These actions are my lifelines, pulling me back from the edge of despair. They allow me to breathe, to find peace in the storm. But they are not cure-alls. My journey towards healing is ongoing, marked by small victories and inevitable setbacks.

## A Shared Struggle

If my words resonate with you, know that you are not alone in your struggles. There are countless individuals grappling with similar challenges, searching for a path towards healing. By sharing my story, I hope to offer solace to those who feel lost in their own battles. Let me know how my open letter has touched you, as your feedback is invaluable in this journey of self-discovery and growth.

No more by Titus vargis.



Remember, strength lies in resilience. Do not allow yourself to remain stagnant in despair. Seek out genuine connections and surround yourself with like-minded souls who uplift and support you. Together, we can navigate the treacherous terrain of loneliness and emerge stronger on the other side.

With resilience and hope,
Titus Vargis

My Fears, My Fight: An Incredible Journey of Overcoming

Navigating through life, we often find ourselves trapped in a web of fears that seem to hold us back from truly growing and achieving our full potential.

These fears, deeply rooted in our past actions and the perceptions of others, can sometimes lead to a vicious cycle of regret, loneliness, and social struggle.

Despite these challenges, it’s the constant effort to move beyond them that truly defines our journey.

In this blog post, I aim to share a personal narrative of my fears and the relentless pursuit of overcoming them, hoping it resonates with those facing similar battles.

📌 I Am Self-Conscious About Other People’s Opinions of Me

Living in a world that often feels judgmental can be daunting.

The fear of being judged by others for my actions, decisions, and even my existence, is a heavyweight to carry.

It’s like walking on eggshells, constantly trying to tailor myself to fit into a mold that society deems acceptable.

The perpetual worry about what others think has, more times than I care to admit, prevented me from voicing my opinions and chasing after my dreams.

📌 I Feel Regretful About Past Mistakes, Particularly Hurting My Family and Friends

We are all, in one way or another, prisoners of our past mistakes.

My heart carries the burden of occasions where my words or actions have inadvertently hurt those I hold dear.



The pang of these memories often replays in my mind, leaving me feeling regretful and yearning for a way to turn back time and make amends for the pain caused.


📌 Despite Apologizing, My Family and Friends Still Avoid Me

Admitting to our mistakes and seeking forgiveness is a step towards healing, yet it doesn’t always result in the outcome we hope for.

Despite my efforts to apologize and mend the broken bridges, the chasm between me and those I’ve hurt remains, their avoidance is a constant reminder of the repercussions of my actions.

This estrangement feeds into my fears of perpetual loneliness and the struggle to rebuild lost relationships.

📌 I Struggle Socially and Feel Inadequate Despite My Efforts to Improve

Regardless of how much effort I put into enhancing my social skills, the feeling of inadequacy looms large.

Social interactions often feel like a battlefield, where I’m unarmed and vulnerable, constantly battling my awkward temperament and the fear of saying or doing something that might alienate others further.


📌 Loneliness Sometimes Creeps in Despite My Busy Schedule

In an attempt to drown out the inner turmoil and the loudness of my fears, I often immerse myself in a deluge of activities.

Yet, loneliness has a cunning way of creeping in, finding me in my busiest moments and reminding me of the void that lacks genuine human connections.


📌 My Awkward Temperament Adds to My Fears and Nervousness in Building Relationships

My naturally awkward temperament serves as both a shield and a prison.

It protects me from potential hurt but also confines me in a bubble of isolation.

The anxiety of not being able to foster meaningful relationships because of it adds another layer of fear to my life, making social interactions even more challenging.

📌 Interacting with Friends and Family Becomes Challenging as a Result

The culmination of my fears and personal struggles manifests most significantly in my interactions with friends and family.

What should be my sanctuary often feels like navigating a minefield, where every step must be calculated to avoid further distancing or disappointment.

Summary

Facing one’s fears is a journey filled with challenges and setbacks.



For me, the fears of judgment, regret, loneliness, and inadequacy form a daunting barrier that I tirelessly work to overcome.

Despite the setbacks and the cold shoulders from those I’ve tried to reconcile with, the struggle to improve, to be better, and to find peace within myself continues.

My story is one of many, a testament to the human spirit’s resilience and the relentless pursuit of growth amidst fear.

Remember, it’s not the absence of fear that defines us, but rather how we confront and move forward in spite of it.

#fears #regret #socialstruggles #lonelinesscreepsin #awkwardtemperament

I Was Down and Out Until I Heard This Life-Changing Advice!

Don’t give up Now.



As a highly sensitive person, I get easily hurt. My spouse, on the other hand, expresses herself candidly without filters, leading to disappointment and frustration.

At times, her use of harsh words causes me pain. A recent blog post has significantly altered my outlook on life.

The key takeaway: don’t rely on others for encouragement; empower yourself.

This shift in perspective has transformed the way I think. Instead of waiting for my spouse to seek forgiveness, I now understand that self-encouragement is crucial.



It’s essential to take ownership of our emotions and actions, recognizing that everyone is facing their battles.

A transformative step is liberating oneself from the expectation of external salvation.

I implement positive affirmations through wall stickers, acknowledging the effort required for personal growth and well-being.

I urge readers not to give up prematurely and to consider revisiting old hobbies and incorporating activities like playing with pets, engaging with children in games, and participating in soul-enriching endeavors.



Reading, shopping, spending time with friends, and prayer are meaningful practices that should not be underestimated.

By persisting through stress and disappointment, one can progress in life and relationships.

The onus lies on oneself to seek encouragement, as it is intrinsic to personal development.



By embracing this responsibility, individuals can move forward and achieve remarkable feats.

Remember, happiness is within reach. Embrace your journey with determination and positivity.

Trust in your capacity and resilience, and remarkable accomplishments await you.

Warm regards,

Titus Vargis

Love and Marriage Coach
https://loveandmarriagecoach.com

See How These People are Single-Handedly Keeping Humanity Alive!



Why shouldn’t you give up?! Let’s look into it.

Recently I happened to visit an ice cream shop. It was a small vehicle shop. I happened to talk to the man who owns the shop.

Normally I don’t eat ice cream at the shop but at home.
As I was having my ice cream, I decided to talk to the man.


He was saying recently in his village for a small piece of land, a man killed his own brother.

Life lessons by tv.


He was saying, human beings have drastically changed. Even a small piece of land is more important than one’s own brother!


Another incident he told that once a customer had forgotten his Apple iPhone at his shop. Later, he returned the phone to the owner. He could have owned it but he didn’t.


What have these two incidents taught me? So much.
One incident reveals the absolute cruelty of our times.

We value a smaller piece of land than our own brother!
This speaks louder about the state of human beings of our times.

We are morally bankrupt. We value more things than relationships.
No matter where you go or live, you can find such incidents.


How cruel we have become!? We have lost our humanity!!


Think about our own personal stories. Are we the same? Do we value relationships more than anything else!? Let’s change this.


But wait for a minute, let me say something else. This is the surprising truth I would like to share with you.
Consider the second incident.

Humanity and truth still exists. Period. Consider this also. On one side we see, as a humanity we have lost our direction. We have missed the moral compass. Yet, humanity still exists. Yes, this is the good news.


There are still people who have not missed their moral compass.
Never say that everyone is lost. No. Not everyone.
Still humanity exists. Might be less compared to the others but it still exists!


These are the ones who are the gems of our communities or the Society.


Not everything is lost. Not everyone is going wrong. Not everyone is a liar or getting wicked.
Humanity still exists. The world is still a beautiful place to live in.


Love still exists. Truth still exists.
Next time, before making any statement negatively, think again.


We still have good people surrounding us. This is the good news.
Best wishes,
Love you.
©Titus Vargis.
https://loveandmarriagecoach.com

Astonishing! Uncover the True Face of Loneliness in Today’s World!

Authentic love is not about me.

The loneliness by tv.



Did you know that “More women may be psychopaths than previously thought”, says an expert.


Dr Clive Boddy says assessment skews towards obvious male traits but female psychopathy is more subtle.


“When it comes to a typical psychopath, the suited and booted Patrick Bateman from the novel American Psycho might spring to mind, but, according to one expert, the number of women with the neuropsychiatric disorder could be far greater than previously thought.

Another way to kill by tv.


Psychopaths are generally considered to lack empathy and guilt, exhibit antisocial behavior, lie frequently and be ruthless, narcissistic and manipulative.” (Nicola Davis Science correspondent @NicolaKSDavis)

Relationships are not for children.Period.This is the most overlooked truth in life and relationships.

If only everyone accepted it, relationships would be literal heaven.

It’s easier said than done!

It’s for mature adults. Lots of people don’t understand that love is not only romance but much more.

Love includes sacrifice, commitment, transparency, mutual understanding, respect and forgiveness.

My struggle by tv.



If one is not giving authentic love that relationship is doomed to wade away no matter what.

Let’s understand that we are dealing here with life and not just part.

If one is thinking that eventually everything will be alright, sorry it won’t.

One needs to look inside himself and look for cracks. To be honest it’s not easy but I can tell you it’s worthwhile for your relationship.

At times, love serves as the foundation for companionship.

However, repeated infidelity by a partner can lead to feelings of solitude.

As adults, we understand the importance of not causing harm to others. Yet, actions that cause pain from one partner can inflict deep wounds, resulting in a sense of loneliness.

Men often view their wives as delicate, but unexpectedly, harsh words from the woman can make her spouse feel isolated without intending to.

Seeking assistance from relatives and acquaintances is crucial.

Nonetheless, society’s habit of blaming men for issues in the relationship can be extremely disheartening. Moreover, when a wife’s severity exacerbates the situation, it becomes even more painful.

The puzzle called love by tv.



When a woman uses verbal abuse towards her partner, it’s harmful to him emotionally.

The knowledge that such negative behavior often goes unpunished compounds the feeling of being alone.

Societal tendencies to overlook the struggles of men, favoring women instead, are common.

A woman may easily escape the repercussions of her actions, leaving men to apologize for their trespasses, which amplifies their sense of isolation.

Relationships are meant to foster support, aid, and mutual connections between individuals.

Truth bites by tv.



Neglecting the needs of one’s partner can unleash an emotional upheaval. Ignoring a partner’s unique contributions and abilities may lead to profound emotional pain.

Immaturity is a recipe for disaster in any relationship. Imposing excessive demands, particularly from one side, can disrupt the equilibrium of a partnership.

The financial situation of a man can significantly impact his relationship.

While financial stability can nurture love, financial difficulties often cause love to diminish, leading to emotional despair.

For a relationship to thrive, a mutual commitment during both prosperous and challenging times is necessary.

The want for consistent support during difficult periods is expected, so its absence can drain an individual’s strength.

What will you do?

Will you act out of love?

©Titus Vargis.