About myself

Discover what the specialists aren’t telling you about child development, through a deep dive into innovative, powerful insights that can transform your perspective about parenting.

Introduction

Sometimes, despite longing for genuine relationships and connections, we find ourselves in seclusion, not out of dislike for others but perhaps due to the nuances of our own personalities.

Surprisingly, many of these traits take root in our early childhood but are rarely addressed in educational settings, which predominantly focus on academic and athletic achievements.

So, why don’t we teach children about personalities?

Let’s explore this often overlooked but crucial aspect of our education system.

Understanding Personalities from Childhood

Personal Struggles with Personality Awareness

Right from childhood, we often categorize our experiences as ‘normal’ or ‘abnormal,’ which heavily influences our self-esteem and social interactions.

Take, for instance, my own journey. At the tender age of seven, I found solace in writing—a passion that even led to my story being published in a newspaper.

However, despite this early success, I often felt isolated at school, misunderstood and alone even in crowded rooms.

The Quest for Answers in Books

As I grew, the struggle did not ease. My academic life was average, and socially, I was on the backfoot, having very few friends.

This isolation became a painful norm, and no amount of books or stories could teach me how to navigate the complexities of my temperament.

It became increasingly clear that despite a wealth of information, there was a distinct lack of guidance on understanding and accepting diverse personality types.

The Silence in Our Education System

Throughout my schooling, not once was the topic of personality differences formally introduced or discussed.

This silence in the curriculum on such a vital aspect of human interaction left me and many others considering ourselves as outliers, thus exacerbating feelings of loneliness and despair.

The Impact of Awareness about Personalities

Realization in Adulthood

It was not until adulthood that I realized being different in social preferences or interactions wasn’t an abnormality.

This epiphany was liberating yet tinged with regret—a regret stemming from the wish that I had understood these nuances much earlier in life.

Influence on Social Skills and Relationships

Had there been formal education about different types of personalities, perhaps the fear of social gatherings and the resulting anxiety could have been mitigated.

Understanding that the spectrum of normalcy is broad and inclusive could potentially have spared me and countless others from years of self-doubt and unwarranted self-criticism.

Why Teaching About Personalities in Schools is Crucial

Educational institutions are the best platforms to introduce concepts of personality differences, as they are places where children first learn to socialize and form their understanding of ‘self’ and ‘others.’

Schools have the unique opportunity to cultivate an environment of acceptance and understanding from an early age.

Benefits of Teaching Personalities

Fostering Empathy:

By understanding that each individual reacts and interacts differently, children can cultivate empathy, seeing their peers through a lens of understanding rather than judgment.

Reducing Bullying:

Awareness and acceptance of different personalities can help reduce instances of bullying, as students learn that being different is not only normal but valuable.

Enhanced Self-esteem:

When children recognize that their unique traits are normal and appreciated, it fostere a healthy self-image.

Implementation Strategies

Introducing modules on personality types, integrating interactive sessions where children can explore different personalities, and encouraging discussions around feelings and behaviors can greatly enhance this learning.

Conclusion: A Call to Action

Just as we diversify education with various subjects to broaden knowledge, so too should we broaden our understanding of human personalities to enrich our interactions and personal growth.

It’s high time schools worldwide adopt personality education into their curricula to nurture more rounded, empathetic, and socially adept individuals.

Let’s not wait any longer to make this crucial change in our educational approach.