Just before
you give up
think about
your parents, children,
spouse and
most importantly
yourself!!
hey you
don’t believe
an iota of
them.
they are vipers
will you realise?
giving up
Narcissists
My god my god
My heart
is broken.
a dime
my brother.
my hopes
lying there
on trash.
my god
appear
let it be.
life ain’t
fair
my god
my god
why have
you forsaken
me?
Is Religion Useless When It Comes to Transforming Hearts? Find Out!
Is religion genuinely transformative or just a myth? Get inside the most remarkable and provocative findings on how faith can actually impact the human heart.
Introduction
Religion has long been a cornerstone of human society, shaping cultures and guiding personal journeys.
Yet, a recurring question persists: Why does religion often fail to bring a profound effect in a person’s heart?
By examining the roles of relationship, love, and life lessons, we can uncover why religion sometimes falls short in fostering genuine transformation.
Understanding the Disconnect Between Religion and Personal Change:
The Role of Relationship in Religion
One critical aspect often overlooked in religious practice is the importance of personal relationships.
Having a support system within a religious community can strengthen one’s faith and commitment.
However, merely participating in religious rituals without forming deep, meaningful relationships can render such practices hollow.
True change often comes from engaging with others who inspire and challenge us, revealing the essence of religious teachings through lived experience.
The Power of Love in Spiritual Growth
Love is a fundamental tenet in many religions, yet its transformative power is sometimes underutilized.
Religious institutions may emphasize doctrine over the compassionate love that fosters genuine connection and personal growth.
When love is at the forefront of religious practice, it can lead to profound changes in the heart.
Instead of focusing solely on rules and rituals, approaching religion with love allows individuals to experience empathy, forgiveness, and a deeper understanding of human connectedness.
Life Lessons and Their Impact on Faith
Religion often serves as a guide through life’s trials, offering lessons that shape our worldview.
However, the mere act of learning these lessons is not enough; internalizing and applying them in daily life is crucial.
Many people attend religious services without actively applying the life lessons taught within their faith.
This disconnection between knowledge and action can hinder personal growth.
To experience true transformation, individuals must actively integrate these teachings into their lives, allowing each lesson to refine their character and worldview.
Barriers to Heartfelt Transformation:
Ritual Without Reflection
One major impediment to genuine change is performing religious rituals without introspection.
Rituals can become rote obligations rather than meaningful practices.
To break free from this cycle,
individuals must reflect on the purpose and significance of their actions, aligning them with their personal spiritual journey.
External Versus Internal Practice
Religion often emphasizes outward compliance rather than inward transformation.
While attending services, following dietary laws, and observing holidays are important, they should not overshadow the need for internal growth.
True change comes from aligning one’s inner values with their religious beliefs, cultivating a sincere and personal spirituality.
Embracing a Holistic Approach:
Integrating Mind, Body, and Spirit
For religion to truly transform the heart, it must address the holistic nature of human existence. This involves nurturing the mind, body, and spirit in harmony.
Practices such as meditation, prayer, and community service can help individuals cultivate a balanced and fulfilling spiritual life.
Building a Strong Relationship with the Divine
At the core of many religions is the relationship between the individual and the divine. Strengthening this relationship can lead to profound personal change.
Through regular prayer, meditation, and contemplation, individuals can deepen their connection with the divine, finding direction and purpose in their spiritual journey.
Conclusion:
Religion holds the potential to bring about meaningful change in a person’s heart, but this requires more than mere observance of rituals and doctrines.
By emphasizing personal relationships, the power of love, and the application of life lessons, individuals can bridge the gap between religious practice and personal transformation.
By fostering a holistic approach that integrates mind, body, and spirit, and by building a strong, personal relationship with the divine, individuals can unlock the full potential of their faith, leading to genuine and
What are you selling my darling!
The day you
were born
the day
you will die.
what is
the meaning
of life or
anything
what do you
want from me?
I could count stars,
tell me
what does it
take to win
your love for me?
I don’t need
your life support.
I am what
I don’t need
your exposition,
elaborated details
of what you
see in me.
I need to hear
from you,
what ways can
you love me.?
Have seen
enough of saviours
have tried
all of them.
Tell me what
you want from me.
You said you
love me,what do
you see in me?
What are you looking for
in me?
Darling,what are you
Selling?
© Titus vargis
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You are not the victim anymore by Titus Vargis.
The fault in our relationship by Titus Vargis
There is a huge rise in abusive females in our world.
It’s not reported by most men out of shame.
Our Society likes to think it’s the female who’s always the weak,so the equation goes like this:
Abusive relationships = men at fault.
The reason behind this equation is that men are stronger than women.
This is the most fallacious misconception. It’s not the truth.
In Fact this is the real culprit. The real cause of marital breakdown.
In any case of reporting to the police,there is bias at work in the system.The police just ignore men and never listen to what men want to say.
Most of the time it won’t be accepted by society that any woman can abuse a man.
This is gross inhuman practice that’s prevalent in many so called developed countries.
Let me put in following points in order to explore these personality:
1) Consider the ads and movies, where it’s common to see women belittling men, even many men are projected there as stupid, foolish.
2) Society, especially narcissistic ones, are training girls and women to abuse men in their lives be it indirectly. The so-called feminist movements add fuel to it.
3) Society as a whole is narrating a different mode of conduct with regards to men.
It’s brainwashing to the point of hating men no matter what.
4) Narcissistic women teach others to refuse to respect any boundaries set by society and men.
There must be a way by Titus Vargis
5) Narcissists play the victim card.
Of course they cry,scream and create drama. They know very well how to influence people a lot so that they will believe in their account.
6) Narcissistic women can’t take any form of constructive feedback.
7) Narcissists lack empathy.
They have no feelings for men! They love a little and hate you at the same time.
8) Narcissists withhold sex to punish men.
9) Narcissists are materialistic.
They will say things like,
you take me out, you give me what I want when I want it.
10.Narcissistic values men based on his financial capabilities.
The blackmail by Titus Vargis
PART B.HOW TO MANAGE A NARCISSISTIC PARTNER?
1.Don’t take the bait.
They are irrational, far from reality. Whatever comes from them is not rational.
Completely ignore them. when they want you to react,just leave the room.
2. When they start to play with your feelings just tell them,
“You are right with your emotions just as I am.”
3.They struggle with their internal chaos and their life shows just the same.
Don’t allow them to dictate your life. Take control of your life.
© Titus Vargis
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