Are you asking the Right question to others? Alert: This might forever change their destiny.

The power of a more sensible approach towards others even when you don’t want to help others.

The power to impact others by Titus Vargis

Read this story from Titus Vargis,PhD on Medium: https://titusvargis.medium.com/are-you-asking-the-right-questions-to-others-alert-doing-so-can-forever-change-their-destiny-b9a154ee1de7

Hey, are you struggling with depression? Let me share how my Suicidal tendencies went Away?

Love and marriage

Life is hard sometimes and you can’t lose your precious life but how?

How my Suicidal tendencies went Away?

It’s not easy. It’s monumental.
It’s not a sickness that you take a pill and it goes away.

My struggle with the darkness by Titus Vargis

Let me come to the point,to say it in short.

First things first,

1. Suicidal thoughts are born out of long term sufferings of stress & harsh realities of life.

2. It’s not possible to get out of it by forcing one’s thoughts alone. No one can get out of it like that. It is ridiculous!

No,it does not work that way. You are Outrightly wrong. It’s not a physical sickness just like cough and cold.

3.Suicidal tendencies are out of one’s control. Understand this. No one wants to live like that.It’s a living hell. One can’t escape by himself.

4. Suicidal thoughts can develop over a period of time while being in total failure, death of a loved one, terrible loss in life or business,terminal sickness & sufferings.

5. The person who is affected by it already has done everything to come out of it but he’s helpless. This is the number one truth. He is really really helpless,and that’s the reason he’s thinking of ending his life.

No one likes to stay depressed by Titus Vargis
My struggle with depression by Titus Vargis.

Now,let me share my experience:

Suicidal thoughts were not in me until my father was alive. But once he had passed away I went into a stage of utter despondency.



I was the eldest son and I had a younger brother. We were still studying in schools. My mother had no job. Financially we were struggling.

During this period,I developed abnormal fears, including fear of people,fear of open spaces.

This created total imbalance in our family. This deeply affected my wellbeing.

As an eldest Son, I had the responsibility to look after my mother and brother.

Here I was in utter darkness & I felt I was not living upto my family’s expectations. I was unable to stay normal and earn a living.

I developed serious depression & went to consult the doctor. Doctor prescribed some medicines for me. I wanted to come out of this mess.

Medication really helped me. Previously I could not sleep at night but now I was sleeping well. My fears subsided to an extent and I attempted to start living my normal life once again.



Financially I had nothing to support my family so that I can feel proud about myself. Feelings of worthlessness increased my depression.I felt I was useless. I found no hope.

I developed a whole range of depressive thinking, different fears, and anger.

I attempted suicide many times. I did not see any point in living. I had tried all ways to get rid of depression. Medicines,Yoga, Positive talk, Exercises.

Nothing brought any lasting solution. Staying positive did not help.Nothing worked.Absolutely.

Medicines did not cure my suicidal tendencies. I was fed up with my life. I did not want to live as a burden to others.

Happiness is costly by Titus Vargis


Deep down my heart I wanted to live and earn lots of money. It didn’t happen. No one saved me.



My mother was a praying woman. She kept on praying for my recovery. She prayed to Jesus. Her prayers brought my answers. My life began to change.

My plans of suicide did not work. I must say I am alive because of Jesus Christ.

It was all because of my Heavenly Father. He just would not let me commit suicide. All my plans to end my life could not succeed.

I must say it took a while for me to become normal. It’s been more than 10 years now. Since then I have never thought about suicide.



My life is no longer the same. I now from my experience can say that no medicines can cure suicidal tendencies. No surface level efforts either.

I believe one must have a paradigm shift. One can’t just get over these dangerous tendencies just by thinking or behaving the right way.

Suicide is deeply related to our Soul. It’s a sickness of the Soul.

Unless and until this soul sickness is dealt with, one just can’t overcome it.



One surely can overcome suicidal tendencies with the help of God. Jesus Christ is the answer. God alone can heal this sickness of the Soul.

When the Soul is healed, a person begins to think about living boldly no matter what.

I believe this experience will help a lot of others who go through suicidal tendencies.

Thank you very much for reading.I am glad you read it.

Best wishes,

© Titus Vargis

Hey ladies,this is the top complaint of men & listen you can incorporate these 11 things to resolve this.

Relationships are awesome but need maintenance from your side too.

Hey Dear Women,

Let me straight forward come to my point. And please do listen to me. I am here for your care and benefits.
Would you please hear the number 1 complain of most Men?

Remember this and save your relationship forever :Your man is not a lifetime punching bag you bought from somewhere.

The number 1 Complaint Men have regarding women in Relationships is: abusive words spoken by women to express their true feelings while being upset.

Men must not raise their hands over a woman. Just like this, women should not Speak rudely against men no matter what.

God has made everyone equal. Men and Women. Both are equal. Yet both Should know what hurts others?

Women, unknowingly or knowingly hurt men by telling what shouldn’t be said at all.

Women need to know their words said in angry moments have equal potential to hurt their man.

Society does not care about what women do Or say. Well it hurts to the point of killing.

It seems that only Men can harm a
woman. Really?

Out of all the Relationships breakdown nearly 87% is due to this monumental error of women.



Women should know their words have a monumental impact.It’s not that words do not matter.

Perhaps, she should know that words
can literally kill like any poison.

Words literally kills. Majority of men who have suffered a Relationship break down very often complain that women have abused them emotionally.

Men say that they have been abused & blackmailed by their women.


Many many men have literally been killed by abusive women.

Emotional abuse by women is considered a lesser sin.

women think that it’s just raising their concerns to their men. But they forget that raising their concerns in an abusive way can harm others, including men.

They Should choose the words carefully.

If words are uttered without considering their partner it can sabotage their beautiful relationship.


Beauty is useless if the mouth is foul. Your man is not a heartless creature just to serve you.

He is not your dad or brother.
He is your equal life partner.

Who gave you authority to trample down your man?

Of course no one has that authority.

Do you think is this the way relationships work?

women, you need understand this: Just as raising hands by men is
violence not worthy of tolerance- in the same way uttering foul words is equal to violence.

Women should respect their men by words and deeds.



Most of the men complain that they have been abused verbally by their partners on a regular basis. No one even say that this is not just acceptable.



Creating an environment of fear by abusive words is a serious violence not tolerable.


Trust me, as a man, I can say that words hurt so much.Even kills.
Don’t excuse yourself by saying that I didn’t mean to hurt you.

Relationships are not meant to be taken for granted. Don’t act like a child.

You might say that I felt it that way & said that.

But No, you are not given permission to hurt others.

You must not utter words in the most fair way. What we say is important. How we say it is also very important.

PART B: 11 QUICK SOLUTIONS

Quick solutions by Titus Vargis

So, here are a few insights into how a woman can express their feelings without hurting men.

1) Before uttering some word, spend time alone. It’s fine to not act on the impulse. Good things take time. Too much hurry spoils a thing. You are right but don’t rush.

Don’t rush by Titus vargis.



2) Don’t speak in the heat of the moment. The number one mistake we make is speaking what we are feeling at the moment. Well, it’s not advisable. It can do more harm.

Silence is powerful often by Titus Vargis.



3)Take a blank sheet of paper and write down what feelings you are going through. Write everything you feel.

Write it down by Titus Vargis.



4) After writing, take a deep breath. Calm yourself completely. Try to be present at the moment. Relax. Do what makes you calm. Watch a movie,go for shopping, gardening etc.

Art of calm by Titus vargis.



5) Ask your man when he’s available to listen to you. Don’t be rude and demand that he urgently make arrangements to talk. Everything must be done in a fair way.

The man and the science behind by Titus Vargis.



6) Preferably, while discussing these choose a place free from family or children.



7) Once he assigns some time, wait for that. Don’t Complain if he can’t listen right when you want him to.



8) Once you meet, carefully share your concerns and feelings.

Take care by Titus vargis.



9) Keep your tone absolutely normal. Don’t say as if to hurt him. Let there be respect. Show fairness. Be kind in your tone. Don’t be rude or insensitive. This might spoil all efforts.



10) Once you have shared, tell him ‘Thank you for giving time’. Give respect and receive back hundred folds. Relationships are about little things. Remember that.

Understand the basic problem by Titus Vargis.



11) Understand that he needs enough time to process what you have said. Don’t expect him to resolve issues at the same time. Be mature enough to understand this.

I strongly believe that these things are very crucial in any relationship.

Relationships are not made in heaven but nourished by two mature adults who know to refrain from unfair practices.

Best wishes,

© Titus Vargis.

Hey,cheer up! Let me show how I overcame the dark times when my father passed away.

Life is not a bed of Roses still lot of it depends on how we manage ourselves.



I really can not explain what the relationship I had with my daddy.
It was a relationship built in heaven.No one can come close to my dad.

My black days and years by Titus Vargis.


I lost him suddenly and it left me a world full of unknowns.
O my how would I move an inch without my earthly God? This was my constant thoughts.


I was afraid.I was willing to suicide even tried to jump into the river.But I think God did not allow it to happen.I was though absolute confident about suicide.
I hated life as a whole.


I came to the TRUE colors of my own.
The plasticity of our society.The wicked heart hiding beneath the sober men and women.


I had to learn to live again.It was hell.It was absolute unnecessary I thought.
So,how anyways I stood on my ground again?


1. My mother stood By me.If there was one solid ground that held me it was my mother.She carried me and came to rescue me.I didn’t see her going away when I needed her the most.

My mother was my Angel by Titus vargis.


2. My supreme help came from my heavenly Father. My God in whom I found refuge.To say the least,it was God who literally stood behind me.It was God who gave me boldness.When all else left me it was the presence of God that stood closer to me.This changed my life.

My Heavenly Father my Saviour by Titus Vargis.


3. My hobbies such as listening music and reading kept me away from serious depression. It was music that changed my mood altogether. Then books.
I survived because of reading the biographies of great men.I purposely read great men and their life stories.I knew if they can succeed I too can.

My hobbies were working by Titus Vargis.


4. My brother stood By me all through my dark times.He was there with me.He never left me.I didn’t feel I am lonely. I was supported By him.He financed me when I had no job.No money in my pocket.I truly thank God for him.

My brother my angel by Titus Vargis.


5. My mentors motivated me.I infact got my mentors through books.They were inspirational and a source of power to me.I felt I too can overcome any difficulties. This transformed my life.This gave me hope.This made me an overcomer.
I have survived all because of these.I could not live well when my dad passed away.
I felt it was impossible to live again.Yet I overcame those difficulties.

My mentors were great by Titus Vargis.


You too can overcome your mountains.


Keep trying. Never give up.Find some mentors.Find your own survival tactics.


Life is precious.Life is beautiful.

© Dr.Titus Vargis

10 things that kill your kid’s positivity and what can you do about it now?

Better parenting by Titus vargis.

Kids are no less than divine. You can kill their positivity unknowingly.

Kids are very fragile and we should know how to handle them.

What kids go through in their life affect their future very much.

Most of the times parents are not careful about how they deal with their kids.

What parents do with their kids have immense impact on their kids. 

Better parenting by Titus Vargis.

Let’s examine what are those things which kill kid’s positivity: 

     01. Constant criticism is the number one poison which kills positivity. Parents who constantly criticise over small things can destroy kid’s self esteem.

    02. Making kids a slave and making them do things forcefully. Kids are slaves when they are required to follow instructions over every things they need to do.This can seriously harm them in their long run.They lose all sense of self worth. 

    03. Abusing kids in behaviour or words.Kids are not stones.They are human beings too.What we as adult feel they feel too. When we abuse them they start abusing themselves. 

    04. Loving kids based on their performance. Kids are often praised or punished as their performance. Kids are not machines.what you think is not possible for them all the times.

    05. Cruel words by parents or family can seriously hamper their positive growth.parents who discipline using harsh and cruel words can discourage their kids.They even can give up and become suicidal. 

    Be an awesome parents by Titus Vargis.

    06. Stop Over pampering. Kids need to be learning uneasy things too.Giving them too much of pampering can make them less confident. 

    07. Violence in any form can literally kill the positivity of your kids.When kids face violence in their homes they can start rebelling. 

    08. Giving them what they ask quickly can hamper their perceptions about reality of life.Kids need to learn that not all things can be obtained as they want.This is life and parents need to teach them.

    09. Taking decisions on behalf of kids can have a negative impact. Let kids take the responsibility and make their own decisions. Ofcourse you can guide them.

    10. Not listening to kids can have a negative impact. They might feel worthless and think that their opinions and matters dont value much.

    Better parenting by Titus vargis.

    PART 02. WHAT CAN YOU DO BETTER AS A PARENT?

    Now let’s see what parents can do to stop being negative to their kids: 

    A. Be careful how you deal with them.They need respect too just as much you do.

    B. Never use harsh words.

    C. Always praise for their small achievements.

    D. Love them more and criticise them less.

    E. Show your full support when they need it from you.Even when they are weak or failing.

    F. Let children know you are on their side.

    G. Stop correcting their behaviour all the time.

    They need freedom and space just as you do.

    Lets see that our kids remain strong as they grow with us.We need to  healthy and confident kids.That must be  the ultimate goal of any parents.

    ©Dr.Titus Verghese,

    (titusvargis.substack.com)

    What if tomorrow Russia might wipe out Ukraine?

    Sing your song
    What if Russia
    Wipe our Ukraine
    While we sing
    Our favorite list.
    Sing your song
    Save those kids
    Apart from yours
    They might kill
    for a piece of bread!
    Sing your song
    shoe is yours
    legs are mine
    It’s hurting.
    Sing your song
    While we watch
    our daily soap
    and favorite
    football team,
    Russia might
    destroy whole
    bunch of innocent
    cities!
    Stop your songs
    look the devastation
    Arise for the kids
    apart from your’s
    Lest they take
    the guns and
    get license to
    Kill.
    ©Titus Vargis
    divinemedia111@gmail.com

    Hey! We might me so good but still we can unknowingly stand with the criminals!

    The day we are silent is the day we are wrong in most cases.

    The underlying problem of US by Titus Vargis.

    “When We Keep Quiet” what really can go wrong?

    “When we choose to remain silent on the violence and injustice that is done to the vulnerable, we are indirectly supporting that crime.”


    How often we blame government, presidents,religion or society for the violence and cruelties.


    We blame everyone and we know what we are doing.
    We are 100% sure of our views.
    We seem like little gods on earth.We claim to know all the answers.


    But do we realise that part of the existing problems around us is us?
    Yes,you heard it right.

    We may not be violent,cruel,corrupt,greedy or a thief yet we can be committing serious crimes or promoting them.


    How? By remaining silent.Silent when women are mistreated, children are abused,corruption happening right in front of our eyes,human rights getting violated,cruelty happening all around us.
    Well,when we choose to remain silent we take sides with the person who is committing the crime.


    Lets be loud! Lets speak up! Lets stand up for the ones who cannot for themselves.


    I believe when we do our part,world will surely be a better place to live in.
    If you liked my post,please take time to let me know.
    Thank you for giving me your valuable time.

    ©Titus Vargis.

    Straight from the heart: Never do this in Love or not.

    It can literally kill someone you might know.

    Straight from the heart by Titus Vargis

    If you are in love say it.If you really really are in genuine love,go and say it.

    Because expressing your love is very okay.

    But I have an advice to those who say I love you for the sake of saying it and who want to manipulate others.

    I feel playing with other’s feelings is a terrible form of violence.

    You might not know how other person feel when they see your true face.

    It’s tragic! It’s a crime! I say mother of all tragedies.

    If you say I love you and then try to act like it but you have no proof of it,then literally you are stabbing the other person.

    It’s a tragedy when someone believes in you and later finds out that you are a liar!People are not toys to play with. When someone gets attracted to you and they hear loving words from you then they really believe you for it.

    But to fake love it’s killing the other person.Love is a serious business,and you either make a person or break them.

    Never say I love you for the sake of using the person for your own selfish ambition.

    Authentic Love and Relationship: How does it look like?

    There are few real signs to identify the authenticity of love and relationship.

    The signs of true Love by Titus Vargis.


    Love is the most misunderstood word on the planet.I think the most most commonly used word in the world would be LOVE. I strongly believe another set of words that are mostly used would be I, We, Us and Me.


    What is the conclusion I make from these?
    Word ‘Love’ is commonly used when we are not literally meaning it.

    We use it to mean that we like something, or someone based on our likes and biases.

    Not necessarily that others are in our hearts or we are deeply moved by the other.

    You see, we are the most selfish generation of the history of mankind.
    Look at the news or any groups or any so called unselfish people groups who are selflessly doing to mankind much favors.


    First of all, why is that these groups or people promote themselves when they are utterly selfless?! It’s a joke!

    Who in the world is selfless and selfish at the same time?! It’s absurd!


    Well, we live in a time such as this. For us LOVE is equal to SELF. Our motives are clear. We will use any opportunity to gain other’s attention and gains.


    We can even use the words such as LOVE or SELFLESS acts of kindness. While the reality is totally different.
    We fool others and we are deeply perfect in this.

    Our schools or colleges teach us and train us to be utterly selfish and put others down at any cost in the name of the so called SUCCESS.

    What is the conclusion regarding the love we see around. LOVE of ours is superficial and plastic. It fools others. It is used to gain something.

    It is utterly selfish and lacks genuineness. Why is it that we kill each other in the name of religion? Why the educated masses are easily swayed away by fanaticism?!

    Why we say we are civilized and at the same time we are totally corrupt and not willing to sacrifice for the sake of others?


    Love is kind, selfless, sacrifice, forgiving, bearing one another in weaknesses ,and laying down our own Demonic pride.

    Love and the ways to identify the authenticity of love by Titus Vargis.

    Let me share few significant characteristics of such authentic Love and Relationship,


    1.True love is coming out of self. It’s all about others and not us.


    2.It’s concerned more about not my bread or my money but about other’s hunger and sufferings.


    3.It’s about giving,giving and utterly giving.


    4.It’s about making a mark in the lives of those who cannot repay us back by any means.


    5.It’s about our forgiving when grace is not possible.


    6.It’s about showing mercy to the offender the tenth or eleventh time.


    7.It’s about not scoring but about getting unnoticed.


    8.It’s not about marketing or getting famous but making the lives of the other much more better than before.Its simple and profound.

    Let’s decode the thing called Love by Titus Vargis.

    ©Titus vargis,

    titusvargis.substack.com

    10 examples of how your partner may be gaslighting you in a relationship.

    The truth of the problem and the ways to deal with it.

    The underlying causes

    https://www.hindustantimes.com/lifestyle/relationships/10-examples-of-how-your-partner-may-be-gaslighting-you-in-a-relationship-101690100216000.html

    Look,what we have done! and where we are heading to

    We are the Superpowers….

    Dreamland by Titus Vargis.

    How we used to,

    while we were dreaming,

    a dawn of,

    Dreamland,fairy tales

    sort of,how we used

    to brag about,

    we will have,

    the perfect relationships,

    the perfect

    AI powered kitchen,

    cars,Nuclear weapons,

    So on,where

    are you now?

    What happened to our children,

    where did they go?

    they have assignments

    to do,they are fighting wars,

    for the sake of

    Supremacy fights,

    ego clashes,

    Look,how far have come!

    We can have famines,

    wars anytime we want,

    Bio weapons to

    hide our weaknesses,

    look we are heading to,

    mass suicides,

    fooling ourselves,

    we are nothing more,than animals…

    ©Titus Vargis,PhD

    ARE YOU GOING THROUGH TOUGH TIMES,HERE ARE SOME GREAT NEWS JUST FOR YOU.

    Hey don’t be giving up when things are going against you.

    Tough times are not for ever.

    Here are some wisdom and inspiration for you as you might be facing rough times in your life or relationship.

    1. If you accept tough times are part of the seasons of life, it will keep you from sinking into depression.



    2. Maintain a healthy perspective. Going through tough times doesn’t mean you are not blessed, you are actually being prepared for something great. Preparation is often not easy but it is the foundation of better things to come.



    3. Tough times will reveal to you your true friends and expose the fake ones.



    4. Tough times will introduce to you real friends who are attracted to your purpose.



    5. The best ideas tend to be conceptualized in tough times.



    6. Sometimes God allows you to go through tough times to wake you up and get your attention especially when you have become too familiar with Him.



    7. Sometimes you have to reach a dead end where no one but God can help you, so that no one but God can receive the glory.



    8. Great people have learnt the art of converting tough times into a path to being a master of something.



    9. There are some lessons that tough times will teach you that good times can’t.



    10. Tough times will open your eyes to see opportunities and doors that complacent you did not.



    11. Some of us lack the courage to move past our current level and lack the initiative to take the next step on our own, tough times will catapult you to the next stage of your life that you are afraid to take.



    12. Tough times will make you naked so that you see yourself for who you truly are. Tough times will force you to be real with yourself, what are you really made of? Because when you are going through tough times, there is no one to impress, you have to be you.



    13. Most couples enter their best season after they reach rock bottom. That is when their true love is tested and they emerge stronger together.

    May you find strength and wisdom to face your rough times,and may you rise up stronger than ever.

    Best wishes.

    Breakup Signs: How To Know When It’s Over

    Relationships can be intricate, often involving emotional, physical, and intellectual interdependence layers. Recognizing when this harmony dissipates is a crucial step in understanding the status of the relationship. This becomes especially important when a relationship reaches its natural conclusion, a situation filled with uncertainty and ambivalence. This article provides insight into various signs that indicate…

    Breakup Signs: How To Know When It’s Over

    Everything has meaning and everyone is connected,no matter what

    The underlying causes of our disruptions which we often overlook

    The Matrix by Titus Vargis.

    everything has

    meaning. and a purpose

    we all are awesome!!

    connected and made to

    live connected.

    No matter what.

    a spouse,a child,

    father or mother

    even little ones.

    we were

    hardwired to live

    interconnected.

    what happens to one

    spreads to another.

    might be pain or

    loneliness,

    or disappointments

    ecstasy, enlightenment

    we are spreading

    everything

    that comes to us

    in the form of waves,

    you like it or not.

    we are not perfect

    but we are spreading

    everything that comes

    to us wether love,hatred, jealousy,guilt,

    cruelty,shame,joy

    and happiness.

    we do it always.

    As part of an ocean,

    each waves spreads

    to everyone we live with.

    The pain we feel

    is felt by everyone around,

    all other vice or virtue.

    we hurt and get hurt.

    we smile we are

    smiled upon.

    why don’t we realise sooner?

    loving my neighbour

    is loving myself.

    loving my partner

    is loving myself.

    loving my child

    is loving myself…..

    © Titus vargis.

    5 things I hate in my partner and everyone should avoid these in a Relationship.

    There can be no sorry for some issues in any relationship.

    There is no excuse my dear by Titus Vargis

    5 things I hate in my marriage, and these can happen in any relationship.

    Well,they must be avoided at any cost to save your relationship.


    01. When I don’t receive back what I give. I always try my best to give love,care, and forgiveness to my partner. Even respect when I feel I have been mistreated.


    02. When I don’t feel that my partner keeps the secrets about me. This frustrates me.


    03. When I find that in matters of money I cannot ask my partner about my needs.when I get answers like it’s my money,why didn’t you keep your money? This turns me off. I strongly believe that as a partner one should help each other in all ways possible.


    04. When I am not consulted regarding some major issues. It can be buying any stuffs or taking a big decision. As a partner one should always first ask one’s partner about their suggestions.


    05. When I am ridiculed in front of others and my partner too joins them. This hurts me the most.

    ©Titus Vargis,PhD

    7 relationship secrets that one must know to have a lasting Relationship.

    Well,most of the Relationship coach wont tell you this.

    The love that stands on the Rock by Titus Vargis.

    How can a Relationship coach help when one is in crisis and the partner is indifferent? 

    Relationships are not easy as it appears. It’s not like 2 plus 2 equals 4.

    It’s really complicated. Sometimes one partner is serious and the other one is just passing time.

    What can we do in such a situation? 

    There are very good people around who can help you. 

    But in order to get lasting solutions one must not forget these relationship principles,

    1. Relationship is a marathon. Its not a short race.One must understand this.
    2. Both the partners must be mature enough to make changes in themselves. No one is perfect here. 
    3. If one partner thinks that he or she is perfect then that relationship won’t last long. It’s so simple. 
    4. Relationships are not one night stands. It’s neither romance nor a joy ride. It’s much larger than that.
    5. We begin with love but we go forward with commitment and lots of sacrifice.
    6. Relationships are not for kids or immature people. It’s not for sex or time pass. 
    7. Relationships are not measured by looks or money but by transparency and sincerity. Looks can backfire.

    What keeps you defeated?

    Sometimes we don’t look around and find what keeps us from being an overcomer.
    We might be looking at bigger things that is keeping us from achieving.
    But it need not be bigger things but smaller things or insignificant things.
    Life has taught me that some of the things that keeps me defeated are:
    1. My thoughts of past hurts and people who have hurt me.
    2. My habit of not forgiving. Many times in order to achieve greater things We must leave aside our past.
    3. My opinion about myself based on my past experiences.
    4. My unrealistic expectations about future.We expect overnight success. But it doesn’t happen like that.
    5. My constant comparison with others. Many times we constantly compare ourselves with others. This keeps us defeated.
    6. Negative self talks. We self talk negatively and keep ourselves in the pit of darkness.
    These things keep us stuck forever in our defeated states.
    We must be kinder to ourselves and treat more lovingly.

    Hey,You are not the Saviour!

    The real thing that wrecks you and me. Hey man, You are not the Savior Just a man! You put the blame take advantage of all sorts. you have the might and cocktail of Power, influence deadly desire. you think you are right absolutely right. Did you see your own child crying when alone? Or … Read more