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Experts Finally Agree on the True Meaning of Life!
Prepare to be amazed! Experts have finally revealed the true meaning of life, and this profound revelation will leave you questioning everything.
What’s the meaning of life? Is it about having fun and living selfishly? Is it accidental?
Are we just animals acting on instinct? What is our sole purpose? Why were we created?
Have you thought about the purpose of life? What is the point of existence?
Should we amass wealth to isolate ourselves? Why are we here? Why endure suffering?
We were created for the highest purposes. Our existence is not random. We were made by a higher power, one greater than our parents.
We were made to live for each other, extending beyond our families. We were created in the image of God. What does that mean?
We were meant to embody God’s characteristics. God is love, but love is not God.
God is compassionate—are we? God helps and forgives—do we?
We were meant to emerge from our comfort zones.
What are our comfort zones?
* Culture
* Society
* Religion
* Family
* Selfishness
* Differences
* Educational qualifications
My dear friend, we were made to care for one another—not just our children, spouses, or families, nor just our culture or society. Consider Abraham Lincoln, who fought against slavery.
Think about Nelson Mandela, who fought against the oppressors of his own country. They were ordinary men like us but took time to reflect on the purpose of their lives.
They overcame their comfortable existences.
Arise. Awake. Make a commitment. Rise above narrow-mindedness. Think about those who are suffering nearby. What can you do for them?
Just do it!
Congratulations.
© TV/May 24
Amazing Discoveries I Made This Year!
“Discover the remarkable secrets this year has taught me about life, personal growth, and happiness. Uncover invaluable lessons that can help you navigate through challenging times and emerge stronger.”
You see,life is a journey. We are on the move.
The importance of journeys is that we need to learn constantly.
Well,over the years I learnt some great lessons in life.
You are not a superman. Don’t accept the lies of the Society.
Read something and learn. Learning makes us wiser. It really is helpful as we are on the journey.
Practice empathy. Learn if you don’t know. Show compassion. Mediate between some persons so that they get united.
Trust in God. God is all knowing,all powerful, Omnipresent. God is available to help you.
Embrace fully not half especially your spouse. In spite of that annoying weakness. They deserve it.
Work more yourself. Stop watching others but work on yourself. It will give you invaluable success. People are not that important.
©TVmay 2024
Love love everywhere but where?
The epidemic of our civilization
We live in a culture of romance ,making relationships , quick fix type of.
Love is everywhere. In our shopping malls most of the Billboards show a quick fix kind of message. Buy this, eat that, wear this, not that,that’s outdated, this is the fashion etc.
It’s worthless to maintain fairness,charity, togetherness. It’s not just appreciated. Why?
Do we appreciate any entrepreneur,a college student,below the poverty line person who is fighting against his traditions?
Love is portrayed in every advertisement. Be it gift shops, Jewellery, diamonds clothing,shoes,other items.
Still when we interact do we get it? Is our society biased towards money and power?
Do we love genuinely? Or are we just selfish? Are we a good mother,father,son, daughter? Are we behaving as if we are civilized? Or are we really expressing pure love?
Do unto others, give unto others,forgive more.
Knowledge is different than wisdom. A religion that underscores love is not spiritual indeed.
If money is the ultimate thing then we would cease to become human but machines.
Love is fairness. Love is committed. Love is becoming unselfish. Non interested in physical wealth gathering.
It’s beyond words. Love is a mother. Love is a father.
© TV 24.
Why You’re Never Happy With What You Have – Psychology Unveiled!
Get professional insight into the horrific reality of greener grass. Understand the hidden drawbacks and challenges that come with the seemingly perfect lawns.
Hey my dear,
This is a reminder. I know you are fighting well.
You are a warrior.
Yes,you have reached this far.
Welcome,my dear.
You might have questions,this is the reason for my letter.
It’s about universal sickness called,’what if’.
If you didn’t know let me tell you.
It’s the sickness that has killed many great men and women.
This is about the grass on the other side. What if I had a different parent?
What if I had been more white?
What if my spouse were different?
What if I had a different career?
What if I was more eloquent?..
The grass on the other side looks GREENER. Yes,it happens with everyone.
Believe me. This is the universal sickness that has destroyed very many good families and excellent personalities.
What if is a supposition.
It is never ending. It’s that endless possibilities we think that could have happened to us.
My experience says it’s deception. In fact the supermom of endless drifting.
It’s like today I am here and tomorrow there.
What’s the outcome? You still are going round and round.
You still are not satisfied.
You find better pastures on the other side.
My beloved,to cut short, don’t do that. It’s a slippery place that leads to nowhere.
Many have changed their spouses only to find the other one is much more brilliant,much more beautiful.
Many have shifted their careers only to find that it still doesn’t suit them.
Be strong in your values.
Give up plan B or C or D.
Focus on this and period.
Everyone is struggling
beloved!
Every family has its own darkness. Every life has its own sorrows.
Why don’t you just plant your own garden. Why don’t you plant your own flowers?
Stop comparing. It’s an ultimate deception.
Trust me,you will find your magic on the way.
Keep on moving with strong convictions.
God bless.
©TV24
Are Angels Real? My Mind-Boggling Experience!
Discover the truth about celestial beings in this gripping post that explores a personal witness of an angel. Are they real? Find out here!
We encounter miracles daily and meet people ranging from the mundane to the extraordinary. Occasionally, we come face to face with angels beings who appear just when we think there are no solutions at hand. Do they exist? Indeed, they do, and often they arrive precisely when we need assistance.
How did I realize I was in the presence of an angel? During a particularly challenging time when I had no expectations of receiving help, one individual halted the construction work on our building.
It was unexpected; we hadn’t anticipated any assistance, yet suddenly, there was someone capable of helping.
Recently returned to our city for a brief visit, this person had relocated due to starting a business elsewhere.
Although we were not close friends, we had shared a bond in the past. After discussing our predicament, he promptly contacted friends in the city who could assist us.
Within the same day, all obstacles regarding our new building were resolved, and construction resumed—a tremendous relief.
Reflecting on this experience, I realized that angels are among us, though often unrecognized until after their intervention.
It prompts me to wonder whether I have been an angel to others. This is a question I now pose to you: given the opportunity, would you become someone else’s angel?
Yours friend,tv2024©
Quick tips to improve your relationship NOW.See the impact within 15 minutes!
One cannot deny the impact of relationships in overall life satisfaction.
Self denial in place of selfishness. Relationships are not a reason for the need of the self.
Might is unnecessary in a good relationship.in fact it’s the most unnecessary factor.
Good looks and smartness are good for the beginning but not in the long run. Beautiful faces won’t make your journey worth taking.
Having a highly self centeredness is rather a stumbling block for any relationship.
Degrees or education is good for the sustainability of the relationship but not the crucial factor of any successful relationship.
A critical attitude is the assured killer of any successful relationship.
Unforgiveness is the surest way to break any good relationship.beware of your stubbornness or lack of forgiving heart.
It is important to have a sympathetic approach towards the other.
© Titus vargis
What’s more powerful than nuclear power on this planet?
You Won’t Believe What’s More Powerful Than Nuclear Weapons! When you think of power, what’s the first thing that comes to mind? Majestic nuclear explosions and their terrifying force?
Indeed, nuclear weapons symbolize immense power, capable of altering the shape of wars and geopolitics.
However, there’s something else that surpasses these man-made giants in terms of real, transformative power.
It’s not hidden in silos or showcased in military parades. It exists in every day interactions, within the words we speak and the respect we share.
Join me as we explore these subtle yet potent forces that trump even the mightiest of arsenals.
Golden Words: The Unsuspected Strength of Timing and Truth
Words can build nations or tear them down. They can start wars or usher in decades of peace. They are, without doubt, powerful.
However, the power of words isn’t simply in what is said; it lies in when and how they are spoken. A well-timed apology can salvage a relationship, just as an untimely truth can sever it.
Think of historical speeches that have stirred nations toward better futures—Martin Luther King Jr.’s “I Have a Dream” or Winston Churchill’s rousing wartime speeches.
In our everyday lives, the timely and sincere compliment you give a colleague, or the honest but gentle critique to a friend, holds immeasurable power. It’s about hitting the right note at the perfect moment.
Understanding the Value of Every Human Being
Every person, irrespective of their economic status, education, or background, inherently possesses value. We’re more than figures or statistics. Each of us—a combination of thoughts, emotions, and potential—is unique.
A society that recognizes and respects this inherent worth can transform in ways that transcend material gains.
Recognizing everyone’s contributions, from the cleaning crew to the CEO, strengthens communal bonds and enhances mutual respect.
Imagine a world where everyone truly understands and believes in the value of their fellow human; isn’t that a cornerstone of the most powerful societal structures?
Respect: The Most Authentic Form of Love
Respect is not just politeness. It’s the very expression of love that accepts and appreciates people for who they are. It recognizes their right to exist and voice their opinions freely.
Real respect involves listening—even when you disagree—and addressing each other’s concerns and boundaries.
This mutual respect fosters an environment where individuals feel safe and valued, not because of what they bring to the table, but simply because they are human.
It’s a powerful component of successful relationships at all levels—from personal friendships to international diplomacy.
The Divine Power of Standing Up for a failed person
There’s something almost sacred about the ability to stand up after a fall—be it personal, economic, or social.
Each time someone chooses to try again after a failure, it’s a powerful reaffirmation of human resilience and hope.
Consider a small business owner who, despite numerous setbacks, chooses to open their doors each morning; or someone battling illness, who puts on a brave face each day.
These acts of persistence are powerful not only in their personal spheres but resonate through communities, inspiring collective strength and courage.
Encouraging and supporting each other to stand up, to try just once more, is perhaps one of the strongest things we can do.
Conclusion
Next time you think about power, think beyond the physical and the visible. Real power—the kind that shapes futures and molds societies—is often less tangible.
It’s found in the words we choose, the respect we give, and our resilience in face of odds.
These forces are truly more powerful than any weapon. Let’s choose to wield them well, with wisdom and compassion, to create a world that thrives on mutual understanding and respect. What step will you take today to harness this authentic power?
This One Trick Helped Me Conquer My Anxiety!
Discover the single most powerful method that transformed my life by conquering anxiety. This easy trick can bring surprising freedom to your routine.
This One Trick Helped Me Conquer My Anxiety!
Anxiety always held me back. Whether it was speaking at a family gathering or selecting my meal in a bustling restaurant, the grip of fear seemed relentless and unyielding.
But that all changed when I discovered a simple yet profound technique, one that anyone can apply to gradually dismantle the fortress of fear.
I am no longer afraid. I have learned that nothing is powerful unless one gives.
The real breakthrough came when I embedded this empowering belief deep within myself. Growing up, the thought of stepping outside my comfort zone was paralyzing.
But understanding that fear grows only when you feed it with your attention was the first step toward reclaiming my life.
But let me share a bit about my past – I was the eldest son in my family, often anxious and afraid, unlike my younger brother.
My younger brother seemed to glide through social situations with ease, while I lingered on the sidelines, envying his natural confidence.
This disparity only deepened my anxiety—until I embraced the journey of self-discovery and change.
Family Dynamics:
As the older brother, the unspoken pressures to set an example were immense.
Social Anxieties:
Avoiding interactions was my safe zone.
Social interaction made me anxious, keeping me inside my house most of the time, aside from going to school.
My refuge was my room, where books and computers offered a sanctuary from the unpredictable world of human interaction.
High school and college were particularly challenging. Group projects and public speaking were nightmares that I lived over and over.
My parents did not realize the need for improvement in this situation.
It was a different time, with less emphasis and understanding of mental health and anxiety.
My parents believed I would ‘grow out of it,’ a sentiment that only heightened my sense of isolation and misunderstanding.
Thus, my school and college years were unconventional.
Avoiding activities:
Clubs and parties were no-go zones.
Minimal interactions:
I stuck to what and who I knew.
I tried my best to overcome this, but nothing seemed to change my behavior or temperament.
Books and articles promised quick fixes, but their effects were fleeting. The change, as I later learned, had to come from a deeper understanding and acceptance of myself.
I eventually understood that my temperament was the root of my behavior.
Being naturally introspective and sensitive, I realized these traits are not weaknesses but rather unexplored strengths.
This internal shift was crucial to the broader transformation.
How did I change my default behavior of fear and anxious thoughts?
First, I accepted my temperament.
I embraced my intrinsic nature instead of fighting it. This acceptance was liberating.
It helped me understand my interactions with the world around me better and adjust accordingly without self-judgment.
I then learned to accept myself just as I am, cultivating self-love and dispelling the notion of insanity.
Self-love exercises:
Treating myself as I would a dear friend.
Daily affirmations:
Reinforcing my worth and normalcy every day.
By observing those different from me, mimicking their body language and attitude, and repeatedly affirming my normalcy, I gradually overcame my anxiety.
I watched, I learned, and I applied. Slowly, the social cues and interactions that once baffled me began to make sense.
Fear and anxiety can be endured through courage, which entails acting despite fear’s presence.
Understanding courage:
It’s not the absence of fear but the decision to move forward despite it.
Practical application:
Choosing to engage in small but challenging interactions every day.
Believe me, we are all afraid. Courage does not mean being unafraid; it means acting despite fear.
Every person has fears; every person has anxiety about something. But those who choose to act, even in the face of those fears, are the ones who find true freedom.
Give it a try and witness a transformation within 15 days. Do not be disheartened by occasional setbacks; personal growth is a commitment.
Embracing this journey is not about immediate perfection but continual progression.
Each step, no matter how small, is a victory against anxiety. Each day is a new opportunity to live more freely than the last.
Keep moving forward, keep exploring yourself, and soon, you’ll find that the clutches of anxiety no longer hold the power they once did.
The Surprising Truth About Choosing the Road Less Traveled
Dive deep into why the road less traveled could lead to extraordinary opportunities and unexpected delights. Unlock your adventure spirit now!
Facing a world of preachers and warring nations like Israel and Russia is a tad bit chaotic.
Every time you flick on the news, there’s something brewing around the corner—be it in the dusty streets of the Middle East or the vast expanses of Eastern Europe.
Conflict seems like the order of the day, and yet here we are, trying to navigate through it all.
Explaining ‘proper living’ to young children can feel like tiptoeing through a field of landmines. It’s tricky, but not impossible.
In a way, we are the most selfish generations to have lived so far. We are highly educated and informed. We’ve got all the information in the world right at our fingertips. Googling has become a verb, and ignorance is less excusable.
Does that make us a bit self-centered? Maybe. We process loads of information daily, focusing more on our lives and less on the broader impacts.
We are aware of what’s happening in the corners of our world right now. But the question is, what are we doing? Are we just scrolling? Liking? Sharing? Often, it feels like our actions don’t extend beyond the digital realm.
Compared to earlier generations, we are smarter and highly practical. We’ve evolved to prioritize efficiency, creating solutions for virtually everything. Our lives revolve around convenience, crafted smartly to fit our fast-paced lifestyle.
Have we lost touch with the fabric that binds us—community and connection amidst the first-class cities and extraordinary facilities with nuclear families?
Each bomb, each bullet whispers a tale of loss—not just of lives but of potential peace.
Perhaps it’s easier to play the fool. Facing reality requires courage and work—traits that demand nurturing.
Despite recyclable cups and solar panels, are we truly making a positive impact on the climate and future generations?
It seems our tolerance and moral compass were misplaced in our quest for more—more money, more success, more everything.
Living sensibly requires a sense of morality and genuine love for others.
It’s not just climate change; it’s a change in the human climate—cold and indifferent.
Not just profits, but gains in kindness, understanding, and sustainability. Treasures that truly count.
Make the first move. Invite, share, understand.
Like an unspoken pact, to handle with care this world and its inhabitants.
Because at the end of the day, the circle completes with us—not beside us, not behind us, but together, hand in hand.
Together, let’s redefine what it means to live properly—not just for our sake, but for the sake of those who will inherit this earth. A commitment, a pact, a lifestyle. For the future is ours to shape.
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This Open Letter to the Broken-Hearted is a Must-Read!
“If you’re dealing with heartache, this open letter is a must-read! It’s packed with startling truths and emotional depth. Don’t miss out!”
Hello, my dear friend.
Are you feeling broken? I would like to talk with you.
This is a safe space where you’re seen and heard, a corner where we can share heart-to-heart.
Life can be grueling, and people can be harsh, but remember, you’re not alone in your struggles. Let’s journey through understanding, resilience, and joy together.
You Are Not Your Behavior
Let’s get one thing straight: your worth isn’t defined by your behaviors, mistakes, or the judgments from those around you. Often, people who keep score of your flaws are wrestling with their own imperfections. So, what should you do?
* Ignore those scorekeepers; they’re no better themselves.
* Recognize your strengths and embrace your weaknesses—they make you uniquely you.
In this noisy world, everyone has an opinion about how you should exist. It’s vital to remind yourself: You are not defined by an isolated moment of your life.
Find Your Tribe
The people who try to belittle you are often battling feelings of inferiority. They may not even realize how their insecurities are affecting you.
* Surround yourself with individuals who uplift you.
* Reevaluate relationships that drain your spirit.
Nothing hurts more than being put down by someone you admire. I’ve felt this pain firsthand, and it’s tough but remember, happiness is your inherent right, not a privilege.
Claiming Your Happiness
Happiness isn’t a luxury item—it’s your right. Take it, own it, live it.
* You don’t need permission to seek joy.
* Break free from those who shatter your peace.
Personal story time—there were moments when I thought my happiness was dependent on approval from others. It took many tears and tough days to realize that the only approval I need is my own.
Walking Away Isn’t Weakness
Sometimes, the healthiest thing you can do is to distance yourself from toxic people.
* Limit interactions that harm more than they heal.
* Loving yourself might mean leaving certain people behind.
If someone shows you that they don’t value your peace or presence, believe them the first time. It’s not about them; it’s about respecting yourself enough to walk away.
Talk It Out
Feeling overwhelmed? Talk to someone who genuinely cares.
* Find a compassionate ear among friends or family.
* Consider professional help—there are many wonderful counselors ready to support you.
And if you’re up for it, why not treat yourself? Grab that ice cream you love, dive into your favorite movie—it’s small acts like these that nestle joy back into your life.
Embrace Self-Care
Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.
* Make time for hobbies and passions outside your daily routines.
* Invest in activities that bring you happiness, be it sports, cooking, or movies.
Remember, laughing and enjoying life aren’t signs of not taking life seriously—they’re signs of embracing the array of human emotions.
You Are Special
I want to leave you with this thought: You are special, loved, and worthy of love.
* Never let anyone’s negativity dictate how you see yourself.
* Protect your peace and prioritize your happiness.
Remember, the greatest duty in life is to love yourself first. When you do, loving others and accepting love becomes a beautiful, natural extension.
Stay blessed, dear friend. Always choose love, choose joy, and most importantly, choose yourself.
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I hope this post resonates with you and instills a bit of strength and hope. If you know someone who might benefit from these words, please feel free to share. Let’s spread kindness and understanding together.
Yours friend
©Titus vargis.
11 rules for starting the day like a king
You find cherry by going to the cherry.
Hey,my friend. Hope you are doing great.
Here I will be sharing a quick way to begin the new day like a king! These are followed by great men and women who have achieved greatness in different spheres of life.
What ways do great men have achieved their greatness? It’s their perspective on time and discipline. They didn’t complain about the lack of time. Rather they went headstrong with seizing the day!
1. Planning a day before for the day.
2. Doing things first what they love.
3. Leaving all other things for the later part of the day.
4. Having a plan for their life and thereby for each day.
5. They know the power of focus. They just never undertake tens of tasks at a time.
6. They save their energy by staying away from unnecessary tasks or people.
7. They start the day with a power breakfast.
8. They believe they are not ruled by luck or the universe.
9. They divide the whole tasks into little chunks so that they can plan better and achieve greatly.
10. They know what their vision is. They are moved by them.
11. They affirm themselves. They believe in self motivation.
These are but few of the rules great men have achieved greatness in their life. Life is hard and we can’t make excuses.
No one is stopping anyone from achieving great things in life. Why are you waiting?!
Yours well wisher.
An Open Letter to My Life Partner: Celebrating Our Shared Moments
Sharing Gratitude for Our Relationship
Our journey together has been amazing. From our first laugh to the deep conversations under the stars, each moment deepens my affection for you. Our love is a beautiful chapter in my life, and I’m constantly surprised by how well we fit together, like a perfectly crafted puzzle.
I often pause to think about how lucky I am to have you in my life. I feel like fate chose you for me, and having you by my side to share my dreams is a blessing that I cherish.
Do you remember who I was when we met? Because of you, I’ve changed in ways I never thought possible. You’ve inspired me to pursue my passions and appreciate the little joys in life, transforming me in ways I never expected.
I can’t imagine going on adventures or enjoying a quiet morning coffee with anyone but you. You’re my constant companion through the highs and lows, and I hope our companionship always remains.
Whenever we’re apart, it feels like a piece of me is missing. Even if it’s just a day at work or a week away due to travel, the distance between us feels insurmountable at times. I find myself eagerly counting down the moments until we’re together again.
Men often struggle to express their emotions and rely on the strong women in their lives—like you. Your grace and understanding in accepting me, flaws and all, are qualities I admire greatly. Your emotional generosity is something I’m learning from you every day.
You believe in me when I doubt myself and push me towards my potential, yet you’re also my safe harbor when I falter. I’m deeply grateful for the delicate balance you strike between supporting and challenging me.
Our anniversary may be far off, but I couldn’t wait to express my gratitude. Every day with you is worth celebrating, far beyond once a year.
Your support during my moments of doubt has not only helped me persevere but has also built my resilience. You’re truly my teammate in every sense of the word.
Forgiveness wasn’t easy for me, but you’ve shown me its healing power. Your ability to forgive, even in difficult times, has turned our home into a place of peace and understanding.
For being there every time I stumble, for your understanding and acceptance—I am thankful. You’ve taught me what unconditional love truly means.
When the world feels overwhelming and I need to retreat, your respect for my space is a gift I treasure. It showcases your profound understanding of who I am.
No matter what happens, you will always be my priority. You are the heart of my world, always pulling me into your orbit.
While I rely on you, I also want you to prioritize your well-being. Your happiness is just as important to me as my own.
Whether it’s later today or tomorrow, I eagerly await our next meeting. Every goodbye is temporary because it leads to another hello.
Forever yours.
What are you selling my darling!
The day you
were born
the day
you will die.
what is
the meaning
of life or
anything
what do you
want from me?
I could count stars,
tell me
what does it
take to win
your love for me?
I don’t need
your life support.
I am what
I don’t need
your exposition,
elaborated details
of what you
see in me.
I need to hear
from you,
what ways can
you love me.?
Have seen
enough of saviours
have tried
all of them.
Tell me what
you want from me.
You said you
love me,what do
you see in me?
What are you looking for
in me?
Darling,what are you
Selling?
© Titus vargis
What really matters
What matters
Well,my child
You might
have decided
already.
Perhaps,
this media
you call
social..
Bla..bla..
you are
young
might have
guessed it
wrong.
No,no no
My child,
Let me say
kindness matters
our survival
is based
on the meek,
not on the
millionaires.
yes,kindness
turning the
other cheek
quite often
matters.
this has
kept us all
alive and
this planet.
remember
remember
Always.
Stop carrying this burden my dear soul
Unwind yourself now
Stop this
hey, it’s okay
to cry.
You are a
man, so what!?
stop being
lonely.
find someone
some solace.
You are
significant.
You are a
warrior and
a human.
Share your
burdens
pour out
your heart
you need
someone.
We all
are little less
than
heavenly.
stop carrying
all by
yourself.
So what?
You are
a man,
and a human
too.
It’s okay
to not be
Okay.
© Titus vargis
Experts Reveal Uncommon Strategies for a Joyful Life!
Looking for a fresh perspective on happiness? This post explores inventive and unorthodox ways to achieve and sustain true joyfulness.
Happy are those who speak ‘No’ at the right time without hesitation.
Don’t follow a false religion.
Treat a hobby like a devotion.
Read books as much as possible.
Prioritize themselves.
Indulge in their favorite ice cream.
Engage with children.
Overcome shame and guilt.
Take unique paths.
Challenge the rules of a seemingly rational society that often favors the wealthy.
Rest whenever mundane activities become monotonous.
Avoid adhering to any man-made recipe for success.
Abandon all conventional life formulas.
Focus on self-approval rather than seeking validation from others.
Shower their children with unconditional love.
Embrace failure and explore new possibilities.
Cultivate self-love to be able to love others effectively afterwards.
Happy are those who,
Speak ‘No’ at the right time without thinking about it.
don’t follow a fake religion.
Treat a hobby like a prayer.
Read books as much as possible.
Think about themselves first.
Buy the favorite ice cream of their choice.
Play with the children.
Ditch shame and guilt.
Take uncommon pathways.
Break the rules of so called sane society which only help the rich and affluent.
Sleep a lot when others bore you.
don’t follow any man made success mantra.
Ditch all so called formulas for life.
Don’t impress anyone but themselves.
Give their unconditional love to their children.
Give up easily and try different things.
Love themselves so that they can love others later.
Hello my friend,we are together as a rainbow.
Think about this.
Hello my friend!
how are you?
Why should
I stay loud?
I am not
everyone.
my DNA is
different.
so yours.
The Sun is,and
the stars and
galaxy.
who said
I am quiet?
Stop being
loud!
It’s irritating.
can’t you be
more accommodating?
Hey,listen
we are together
in the rainbow.
Listen, you are
loud.so loud.
I am not loud.
© Titus vargis
Experts Agree: Discover the Eleven Life Lessons That Can Boost Your Happiness!
Explore the wisdom shared by experts and embrace the surprising life lessons that are absolutely essential for growth, happiness, and success.
Life is a journey that constantly teaches us new lessons. Sometimes, these lessons come from experiences, good or bad, and sometimes we learn them by observing others or through personal reflection.
Today, I want to share with you 11 life lessons that have truly made a difference in how I view the world and myself. These aren’t just any lessons; they’re the kind of insights I wish someone had shared with me earlier.
So, grab a cup of your favorite beverage, and let’s dive in together into this pool of wisdom collected over the years.
Relationships Don’t Fulfill You
You might think finding the one person who makes your heart skip a beat will solve all your problems and fill that emptiness inside you.
But the truth is, no one can fill that void except you. Relationships are wonderful, enriching aspects of our lives, but they’re not the solution to personal fulfillment. Fulfillment comes from inside, from knowing yourself and loving yourself.
Only You Can Bring Significance to Your Life
It’s easy to fall into the trap of believing that our worth is tied to our achievements, job title, or social status.
However, the only person who can genuinely bring meaning to your life is you. Your passions, your kindness, your dreams, and how you touch the lives of others—these are what make your life significant.
Work Hard but Don’t Forget to Act Smart
There’s no denying the importance of hard work. Dedication and perseverance are key to achieving goals.
But it’s also crucial to work smart. Efficiency isn’t just about putting in the hours; it’s about finding better, more effective ways to accomplish tasks.
This could mean automating repetitive tasks, delegating, or simply knowing when to take a break to recharge your batteries.
Take Time for Yourself
In this fast-paced world, taking time for oneself is often seen as a luxury or even selfishness.
But it’s anything but. Taking time off to just be can greatly improve your mental health and productivity.
Whether it’s reading a book, taking a walk in nature, or simply doing nothing, time for yourself is essential for a balanced life.
Find a Purpose in Life Apart from Your Routine Job
Many of us fall into the routine of daily jobs and responsibilities, often losing sight of what makes us truly excited about life.
Finding a purpose outside of work can add a new layer of meaning to your life. This could be a hobby, volunteer work, or anything that makes you feel alive and contributes to the greater good.
The Purpose Gives You Significance
Having discussed finding a purpose, it’s worth noting that this purpose is what imbues your life with real significance.
It’s the thing that gets you up in the morning with excitement and keeps you going even when the going gets tough. A life with a purpose is a life of fulfillment.
Think Out of the Box
Creativity isn’t just for artists; it’s a necessary skill for overcoming the challenges life throws at us.
Thinking outside the box, trying new things, and looking at situations from different perspectives can open up a whole new world of possibilities.
Encourage yourself to break the mold once in a while, and you might be surprised where it leads you.
Life Is an Adventure
Life isn’t just about the destination; it’s about the journey. Treating life as an adventure helps us see the beauty in the everyday and makes us more open to new experiences.
Embrace the unknown with open arms, and don’t be afraid to take risks – this is what makes life thrilling.
Ask Directions if You Feel You Got Lost
There’s no shame in asking for help or direction. We all get lost sometimes, whether it’s in our career paths, personal life, or even literally.
Seeking advice or guidance from others can provide valuable insights and prevent us from wandering aimlessly.
Try Supernatural
This point might raise a few eyebrows, but hear me out. The supernatural doesn’t necessarily mean magic spells or sorcery; it’s about believing in something beyond our understanding.
Whether it’s faith, karma, or cosmic energy, sometimes, embracing the idea that there’s more to life than what meets the eye can help us cope with life’s frustrations.
Never Give Up Your Confidence
Confidence is not about always being right or not having doubts; it’s about trusting your abilities and worth even when things don’t go your way.
Never let failures or setbacks diminish your self-belief. Remember, confidence is like a muscle – the more you use it, the stronger it gets.
Say ‘Yes’ Only When You Really Want To
We live in a culture that glorifies busyness and overcommitment.
But there’s incredible power in saying no and choosing what truly resonates with you.
Say yes to experiences, opportunities, and connections that align with your values and joy, and don’t feel pressured to agree to everything else.
In sum, these lessons, drawn from personal experiences and reflections, offer a blueprint for living a life that is rich, fulfilling, and true to oneself.
Remember, life is a beautiful, messy, and unpredictable journey, but it’s our journey to embrace, explore, and enjoy.
So, here’s to making the most of it, learning as we go, and remembering that in the end, it’s the lessons we learn that make us who we are.
Experts Reveal Why Your Identity Is a Complete Illusion!
Dive deep into the mind-blowing reality that your identity might just be an illusion. Experts share powerful insights on why and how – a must-read journey to the truth.”
Sometimes, we find ourselves standing at the crossroads of self-perception and societal expectation, pondering deeply, “Who am I? I really don’t know.”
It’s a question that echoes through the chambers of our minds, particularly during moments of solitude or frustration.
The journey to self-discovery is intricate, often marred by the external pressures to conform and the internal desire to be authentic.
This blog post delves into this complex interplay, exploring why we sometimes lose sight of who we are and how we can navigate back to our true selves.
Should I Believe in Myself or Others? I Am Confused
There comes a time in nearly everyone’s life when the reflection staring back from the mirror seems unfamiliar.
It’s not the physical appearance that feels foreign but the realization that the person you’ve become might be a collage of external expectations rather than your authentic self.
The paradox of belief—heavily influenced by others yet inherently personal—leaves us in a state of confusion.
The Frustration of Constant Agreement
It’s astonishing how subtly it begins. Agreeing with a partner on a trivial matter, or altering behavior slightly to avoid disappointing parents or friends.
Slowly, these concessions accumulate, eclipsing our true nature.
The frustration bubbles beneath the surface when we realize that our actions and decisions are no longer our own but a performance scripted by societal norms.
Conforming to Avoid Offense
Our world is painted in shades of politeness and diplomacy, where offending others is often seen as the cardinal sin.
This societal dictum shapes our behavior meticulously, compelling us to adjust our true selves for fear of rebuke. But at what cost? The price, it turns out, is the essence of who we are.
Society Dictates, But At What Expense?
The societal cookie-cutter approach to individuality is perplexing. From our earliest days, any deviation from the norm is discouraged, children being the prime victims of this conformity crusade.
But why do we prioritize fitting in over being genuine?
Suppressing Our True Selves
The suppression begins innocuously enough, with reprimands for not adhering to expected behaviors, and subtly transitions into a more profound loss of identity.
As we mature, the societal leash tightens, often disguised as well-meaning advice or the path to success.
However, this suppression of individuality bears long-term consequences, eroding the authenticity that makes each of us unique.
The Fault in Our Systems
Our education system, albeit a cornerstone of societal progress, sometimes perpetuates this culture of conformity. Creativity and originality often take a backseat to memorization and regurgitation of accepted norms.
This not only stifles personal growth but also molds individuals into personas that resonate with societal expectations rather than their true selves.
Embracing Authenticity for a Rich Tapestry of Individuality
Recently, an epiphany struck me. In my relentless pursuit of pleasing others, I had lost touch with who I really am. This realization was both liberating and daunting.
It’s time to peel off the layers of imposed identities and rediscover the core of our being.
Respect Diversity, Foster Individuality
Just as we cannot expect a singer to excel in accounting without a passion for numbers, or an athlete to dance without rhythm, we cannot force individuals into preconceived molds.
It is essential to acknowledge and respect the diversity of talents, passions, and personalities that make up the human tapestry.
Promoting a one-size-fits-all mentality does a disservice to the richness of human potential.
Conclusion: The Authentic Self is the Happiest Self
In this journey of self-discovery, let us embrace our quirks, our idiosyncrasies, and our unique perspectives.
Encourage others to shine in their authentic light, unburdened by the weight of conformity.
Remember, the freedom to be ourselves is not just a path to happiness but a celebration of the vibrant diversity that makes humanity so intriguing and wonderful.
Let’s not just ask, “Who am I?” but answer with confidence, “I am uniquely me.” And that’s not just okay; it’s beautiful.
Ready to Quit? This Message Will Give You the Strength to Carry On!
Ever felt like giving up? This message will light a fire within you, revealing exclusive insights on cultivating grit and resilience. Discover the secrets to a stronger, more determined you.
You have come so far. Don’t you think it is true?
You have overcome millions of seas. You outsmarted many.
Life gives you so many lessons,won’t you fight this time?
Millions have gone during the pandemic. You have SURVIVED.
Take time to look back. You are a survivor.
Many look to you as a role model. Would you give up and shatter their hope?
Think about millions of children who are sleeping without bread? Are you not better than them?
You never gave up, earlier. Now life has brought you in a state of suffering. You must fight.
I tell you, you are not defeated unless you give up.
Take a break. It’s a burnout.you need to show compassion to yourself. You need care.
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